hey, just wanted to reach out and offer some support. life can be unbelievably hard sometimes, and it's not fair that you're dealing with so much all at once. it's okay to feel overwhelmed and lost. have you thought about trying to find a creative outlet for your emotions? sometimes expressing yourself through art, writing, or music can be incredibly therapeutic. also, don't forget that it's okay to ask for help. it takes a lot of strength to admit when you're struggling. maybe try to find some small things that can bring you a bit of comfort, like spending time in nature or doing something you enjoy. you deserve to find some peace and happiness, even in this tough time. stay strong, and don't give up. the world needs you, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. what are some things that used to make you happy? maybe revisiting them could help a little.
Life can be incredibly tough and unfair sometimes. It's important to remind yourself that it's okay to feel this way. Having someone to talk to who has been through their own struggles can provide a new perspective and some much-needed wisdom. It's okay to ask for help and lean on others when you're feeling down. Try to focus on the things you can control, no matter how small. Little steps can lead to big changes over time. Hang in there, and keep pushing forward. You are stronger than you think, and there's always hope, even in the darkest times.
hey dude, i can’t imagine how tough things must be for you right now. just know that it’s okay to feel the way you do. life has a way of throwing curveballs, and it’s unfair that you’ve been hit with so many at once. 🤯 asking for help doesn’t make you weak. it takes a lot of courage to admit when you’re struggling. maybe try to find some small things that can bring you a bit of comfort, like listening to your favorite music or watching a movie you love. you deserve to find some moments of peace in this tough time. keep holding on, and don’t give up. you’re strong and things can get better. 🌈
You're not a loser, you're just human that's experiencing life. Don't underestimate the power of reaching out to others, even if it's just online. I am happy that you’re here and reaching out for help! That’s a huge step and that means that you want to change. You're not weak. Also, try to surround yourself with positive influences, whether it's people, books, or even uplifting videos. Reach out to people who care about you; there are more of them than you might think.
I just read your post, and I can feel the weight of what you're going through. I’m a teacher, and I see a lot of young people who struggle with many of the same feelings you’re expressing. It’s tough to watch, and even tougher to experience, I’m sure. I want you to know that you’re not alone.
Losing so many important people in your life in such a short span of time is a massive hit. I can’t pretend to know exactly what you’re feeling, but I can imagine how these losses compound and make everything else feel even more overwhelming. Grief is a heavy burden, and it’s okay to feel lost and to mourn in your own time and way.
I hear your frustration about not getting into your dream university. That’s a hard pill to swallow, especially when you’ve probably worked so hard for it. But I want you to know that this doesn’t define your future. There are many paths to success and fulfillment, and sometimes the detours lead us to places we could never have imagined.
Feeling like you’re losing at everything is a common sentiment when you’re in a dark place. Our minds tend to focus on the negatives and amplify them. But remember, every day is a new opportunity.
I appreciate your honesty about struggling to keep up and wishing for someone to talk to. Reaching out for help doesn’t make you weak; it makes you human. We all need support, and there’s no shame in asking for it. In fact, it takes a lot of courage to admit that you need help.
Your comment about feeling like your family would trade you for a bag of rice hits hard. Family dynamics can be incredibly difficult, and feeling undervalued by those who are supposed to care for us is deeply painful. But your worth isn’t determined by their actions or opinions. You have intrinsic value just by being you.
i feel you bro, life can be a real jerk sometimes. but you know what, you're still here, still fighting, and that means something. somethin that helped me was finding a hobby or a passion to throw myself into. it's like, when everything feels like it's falling apart, having something to focus on can be a lifeline. whether it's painting, gaming, working out, or cooking, just try to find something that makes you feel alive, even if it's just a little. and hey, don't be too hard on yourself. we all have our struggles, and asking for help isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength. hang in there, man.
I’ve been through some tough times too. My friends always tell me to "man up" and just get over it, but it’s not that simple. It’s okay to feel weak and to ask for help. You’re not alone in feeling this way. I’ve lost people I loved too. It hurts, and it feels like the pain will never go away. But over time, it does get a bit easier. You just have to take it one day at a time. Sometimes that’s the best we can do.
hey man, i know this might sound cliché, but trust me, you're not alone. sometimes life feels like a never-ending struggle, but it's those struggles that shape who we are. the thing that helped me was writing down my thoughts. it sounds silly, but getting everything out on paper can be really freeing. it’s like, once it’s out there, it doesn’t have as much power over you. also, try to find some positive affirmations or quotes that resonate with you and write them down as well. repeat them to yourself daily. it might not seem like much, but those little things can start to shift your mindset. hang in there, dude. you got this.
yo, i get it. life sucks sometimes. but giving up ain't the answer. think about the small victories, man. like, maybe you got out of bed today, maybe you ate something, maybe you even just took a shower. those things matter. they add up. it's also okay to feel like crap sometimes. we're human, not robots. talk to someone, anyone. it doesn’t have to be face-to-face. even posting here is a start. don’t bottle it up. and remember, it’s okay to cry, to scream, to let it out. just don’t let it consume yo, k?. stay strong
I can relate to this a lot. Sometimes I feel like I'm the biggest loser because some events in life don't even make sense. How am I so unlucky? Life is so unfair, but I think we just have to accept it and move forward. I was in a similar state of mind not too long ago and it didn't help me one bit. It just made it worse. You have to force yourself to cheer up and then it will become a habit..... I don't know. It might be weird at first, because there's not much to be happy about, but then you'll realize that all your efforts matter.
@xrath that's so true. i used to pity myself all the time too. i would wake up every day thinking about how everything was against me. i used to think everyone around me was an enemy. it felt like the whole world was out to get me. i couldn't see any positive in my life. every little thing seemed like a huge obstacle. i would overthink everything and make myself miserable. but then, i decided to try something different. i started small, just forcing a smile even when i didn't feel like it. i tried to find one good thing about my day, even if it just waking up. it was hard at first, really hard. but i kept at it. i tried to be kinder to myself. instead of focusing on what went wrong, i tried to see what went right.
@xrath exactly. and i think it's important to remember that it's okay to take it one day at a time. there were days when i felt like i had made no progress at all, but looking back, i can see that every small effort added up. journaling can help see the progress. i started writing down one good thing that happened each day, no matter how insignificant it seemed. it could be as simple as enjoying a good cup of coffee or having a nice conversation with a friend. over time, i had a whole list of positive moments to look back on, and it made a big difference in how i viewed my life.
@joshuahbraun302 I totally get what you're saying. It's like this never-ending cycle of negativity that you have to break out of. For me, it started with small things too. I remember one day I decided to take a walk outside, just to get some fresh air. It wasn't much, but it felt like a tiny step towards something better. It's like you have to teach yourself to see the good in life again, even if it feels forced at first.
@joshuahbraun302 That's a great idea. I think we often overlook the power of small positive habits. For me, another thing that helped was reconnecting with hobbies I used to enjoy. I picked up painting again, something I hadn't done in years. It gave me a sense of accomplishment and a way to express myself. It wasn't just about the end result, but the process of creating something. It reminded me that there are things in life that can bring joy and satisfaction, even when everything else feels chaotic.
When someone close dies it brings up our feelings about our own death. It is necessary that you grieve for the people you have lost. i understand you feel devastated, lonely, want to talk to someone but no one is there. Talk to a therapist or be part of support groups or local grief centres where you can explain in detail what are you feeling. there would be many in the group who would resonate with your feelings. remember you are not weak if you ask for help. you are strong enough to share what you are going through. you are strong to express your feelings.
To process your feelings you need to write down in detail about it in a journal. like when you say you lost your uni?
These questions will help you acknowledge, validate and process your feelings. talk it out to a therapist which will help you feel lighter.
thoughts like life couldn't get worse or why does this happen to me? start seeing life has given you positives also like meeting such people in your life. you need to start becoming aware of negative thoughts so that your mind is not thinking only negative. it will only attract negative and see negative if you keep thinking about it. when you start seeing positive you will see ray of hope that life is a better place to live in.