Please don't call yourself a failure, exams don't define you. You are more valuable than some exam believe me!
The memory struggles are real! I failed my nursing exams 3 times before passing. Know what's wild? Our brains actually process info differently when we're stressed - it's science! I started breaking everything into tiny chunks, used colored sticky notes everywhere (my room looked insane), and recorded myself explaining stuff like I was teaching someone else. Drawing silly pictures helped too. Had to figure out what worked for my brain. You're not alone in this at all. Remember - Edison failed thousands of times before getting that light bulb right!
@jwwern76432 I agree. Grades aren't everything, and you'll find your own way to tackle this. I failed so many exams and I'm doing just fine
Hi!
Memory problems during exams are so frustrating! Had similar issues with my coding bootcamp tests.
Started using this weird method where I'd explain the concepts to my rubber duck (sounds crazy, but works!). Sometimes our brains just need different approaches.
Don't be too hard on yourself about your parents they're probably more worried than disppointed. Think of it this way you're not failing, you're collecting data on what doesn't work yet. When you finally crack this, you'll have
Failing exams is rough. Went through similar stuff. What helped me was treating it like a video game, each attempt was just another try at beating the boss. You learn the patterns, figure out what didn't work, and try a different strategy next time. Your parents will get over it. mine did. You got this!
As someone who works in education, I see this ALL the time. Memory issues during exams often aren't about intelligence they're about finding the right study method for YOUR brain. Everyone learns differently. Some students need visual aids, others need hands-on practice. Some do better studying in short bursts, others need long sessions. It's totally normal to need multiple attempts.
I've seen students fail repeatedlyand then absolutely ace it once they found their groove
Hey! It's totally normal to feel this way about exams. The memory thing - happens to a lot of people! My friend literally forgot his own phone number during a test once lol
Remember that failure is not a destination - it's a stepping stone to success. Each attempt teaches us something valuable about ourselves and our learning process. You're not alone in this journey, and what matters most is your determination to keep going. Have you considered working with a study group or tutor? Sometimes a fresh perspective can make all the difference. Your parents' disappointment comes from a place of caring, but don't let it define you. Focus on progress, not perfection.
Yo, this hit home hard.
Failed programming fundamentals THREE times before it clicked
Parents were mega disappointed too, but now they brag about my job that had nothing to do with my degree. Sometimes the conventional study methods just don't cut it. Keep experimenting until you find your cheat code.
Noonoo, please don't think of yourself as a failure. And don't call yourself this horrible name. You deserve kindness from yourself no matter of the circumstances
Memory is very fragile. Your ability to create and recall memories is related to variety of factors including nutrition and sleep.
There are few ways you can try next time to prepare for the exams. Do not get disheartened.
memory and brain games like Sudoku, scrabble, crosswords, word puzzles or chess can help boost memory and brain function. Playing these games wont just exercise your brain but also help you with your anxiety. if games don't appeal you then strengthen your brain and improve memory by :
Learning a musical instrument or playing if you know any musical instrument.
Learn a new skills like gardening or art or painting etc. you need to train your brain to learn.
Every day write down your worries and potential causes behind it which can help you express them so they don't take up so much mental energy. When you have less to worry about your memory might improve automatically.
Don't get disheartened and try these techniques. It will surely help you. Just believe in you and give your exam once again with full determination to do it.