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Veena Choudhary
17d
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Memory is very fragile. Your ability to create and recall memories is related to variety of factors including nutrition and sleep.


  • Cortisol could be one reason too. It is the hormone body releases during stress. This is known to interfere with the process of forming and recalling memories. When we are in stress cortisol increases in our body. This can lead to forgetfulness. Memory loss can disrupt your day to day life and compound distress caused by stress and anxiety. Reach a therapist who can help you out with this as they could conduct series of test to understand your episodes of forgetfulness.


  • Test anxiety also you could be one more reason you cant remember. you may feel anxious while entering the exam room. it is important you calm your mind and breathe in, out for 5 min to relax yourself before the exams.
  • Lack of revision
  • Lack of confidence


There are few ways you can try next time to prepare for the exams. Do not get disheartened.


  • Train your brain:


memory and brain games like Sudoku, scrabble, crosswords, word puzzles or chess can help boost memory and brain function. Playing these games wont just exercise your brain but also help you with your anxiety. if games don't appeal you then strengthen your brain and improve memory by :


  • Learning a new language. There are various free apps and sites where you can learn.

Learning a musical instrument or playing if you know any musical instrument.

Learn a new skills like gardening or art or painting etc. you need to train your brain to learn.


  • Maintain journal:


Every day write down your worries and potential causes behind it which can help you express them so they don't take up so much mental energy. When you have less to worry about your memory might improve automatically.


  • Make time for exercise as physical activity can improve your mood and boost overall brain health.


  • Focus on one thing at time. Multitasking spoils all the tasks because the brain can do only one thing at time for some. so break down your chapters. now in a chart write what will you study for today and see end of the day you complete it. only focus on studying important parts than reading completely.


  • Read for 20 min then take a break for 5-10 min. taking breaks helps reduce fatigue and increases focus. choose a regular time of the day when you are most alert for focused work and for remembering.


  • keep your room organised and don't keep any device near you which is distracting e.g electronic devices like phone, laptop etc


  • 30 min of exercise like yoga or tai-chi or aerboics 4-5 times a week would improve your focus and executive functioning skills


  • Research has shown that you remember more when you review/ revise what you studied or learnt earlier in the day 10 to 15 min before the bed. Reviewing what you studied allows you to process the information as you sleep. Try revising atleast 2-3 times a week and make a short notes so you remember those key points.


  • Highlight important text with different coloured pens will help you to focus and study only things which are important.


  • Recording few notes which you know is very important. keep listening to those when you are walking around


  • Try reading an assignment aloud to yourself. keep repeating it till you understand the concept.


  • You can also try different places to study to help you remember like different rooms or hall or outside in the garden. experiment and see what works best for you. you also can explore do you need to be on your own or study with another friend, do you prefer reading in silence or need background noise to prepare for exams.


  • It is also important that you pay attention to what you read. if not recalling gets difficult.


  • Everyone has different ways to remember. now you need to introspect what is your learning style. For memorising you can make it fun by creating a song. This would make information memorable. example just to remember planets sing this statement in form of song "My very excellent mother just served us noodles" first letter of each word is starting letter of planets so start associating words. Like that anything important you need to remember connect it with a song or your memories like friends name or incident in your life. This way of associating your important notes with a song or important event recalling gets easier. Certain people remember it visually so they draw diagrams to recall with different colours just to associate the unit with a colour or diagram,


  • Ask your friend or parents to help you. You could take a mock test and they would just check that you complete on time like how do it in the exam. Practising before the actual exam will help you handle the test anxiety too.


  • You can even share what you learnt with your friend or family. This will help your mind to retain the information much longer. You can teach other friend the unit which will help you to remember it.


Don't get disheartened and try these techniques. It will surely help you. Just believe in you and give your exam once again with full determination to do it.

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Kevin Sand
28d

Please don't call yourself a failure, exams don't define you. You are more valuable than some exam believe me!

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jwwern76432
28d

The memory struggles are real! I failed my nursing exams 3 times before passing. Know what's wild? Our brains actually process info differently when we're stressed - it's science! I started breaking everything into tiny chunks, used colored sticky notes everywhere (my room looked insane), and recorded myself explaining stuff like I was teaching someone else. Drawing silly pictures helped too. Had to figure out what worked for my brain. You're not alone in this at all. Remember - Edison failed thousands of times before getting that light bulb right!

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Darlene McGee
22d

@jwwern76432 I agree. Grades aren't everything, and you'll find your own way to tackle this. I failed so many exams and I'm doing just fine

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gentle_soul
24d

Hi!

Memory problems during exams are so frustrating! Had similar issues with my coding bootcamp tests.


Started using this weird method where I'd explain the concepts to my rubber duck (sounds crazy, but works!). Sometimes our brains just need different approaches.


Don't be too hard on yourself about your parents they're probably more worried than disppointed. Think of it this way you're not failing, you're collecting data on what doesn't work yet. When you finally crack this, you'll have

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Joseph C.
24d

Failing exams is rough. Went through similar stuff. What helped me was treating it like a video game, each attempt was just another try at beating the boss. You learn the patterns, figure out what didn't work, and try a different strategy next time. Your parents will get over it. mine did. You got this!

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Billa
24d

As someone who works in education, I see this ALL the time. Memory issues during exams often aren't about intelligence they're about finding the right study method for YOUR brain. Everyone learns differently. Some students need visual aids, others need hands-on practice. Some do better studying in short bursts, others need long sessions. It's totally normal to need multiple attempts.


I've seen students fail repeatedlyand then absolutely ace it once they found their groove

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sarah_v
23d

Hey! It's totally normal to feel this way about exams. The memory thing - happens to a lot of people! My friend literally forgot his own phone number during a test once lol

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Kimberly St
17d

Remember that failure is not a destination - it's a stepping stone to success. Each attempt teaches us something valuable about ourselves and our learning process. You're not alone in this journey, and what matters most is your determination to keep going. Have you considered working with a study group or tutor? Sometimes a fresh perspective can make all the difference. Your parents' disappointment comes from a place of caring, but don't let it define you. Focus on progress, not perfection.

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iamnotfrank
14d

Yo, this hit home hard.

Failed programming fundamentals THREE times before it clicked


Parents were mega disappointed too, but now they brag about my job that had nothing to do with my degree. Sometimes the conventional study methods just don't cut it. Keep experimenting until you find your cheat code.

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bira
1d

Noonoo, please don't think of yourself as a failure. And don't call yourself this horrible name. You deserve kindness from yourself no matter of the circumstances

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