getting readily hurted from other people words

Actually I am a talkative person and can't be quiet even for few mins...but only to my 3 frnds..I also love them very much...and also fight much too...even after a fight...it's me or them ..who had done something wrong..my ego doesn't work to put me in my place and let them be sorry.. asap I will go to them ...and try to talk...to re establish normal conditions...until which Im the one who will be anxious...in the time of fight...I will be experiencing palpitations, sleepless nights, couldn't able to concentrate in studies,and I will be left alone into dark clouds ...these all are my initial episodes...months later, even their intentional or unintentional hurtful words ,act disturb me to the core...and I started experiencing those anxiety symptoms sooner or later...these are spoiling my health...please help me with some valuable solutions