I feel you should reconsider who your close people are, it's nice to be a humble down to earth person but still having such people as your close friends who do not value you as much as you do who do not care to fix things as much as you do then it's high time you reconsider
Also these things come and go in life so you need keep certain guards always up, because one person your friend today will be against you tomorrow and going around spilling your secrets so you need to be very peculiar about that
Sometimes when we get hurt,in my opinion I feel it's our fault became we let on wrong people we put our guards down in front of wrong ones we expect them to to show up to our expectations when they don't really care about our expectations, but at the end it's life we try we fall we learn we ace
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stefan
1y
In my opinion, there should be no ego and worldly formalities between real true friends, but it needs to be equal from all ends, as I see you have no ego and you always try to mend relations back which is a great trait in you, but you need to make sure it's equal from all ends and if it is not then you need to reevaluate if your friends really deserve you
And I would suggest that yes go ahead socialize and everything but be very peculiar about who you let in, because your boundaries' security your secrets' security everything is your responsibility, so once if that person goes wrong it's their fault but yours too because you lacked judgment
schaefer
1y
Hi! although you wrote everything very inconsistently and unclear, it's clear that you're trying to be good for everyone. It's characteristic of youth. Then you don't care how anyone evaluates you. Try not to please absolutely everyone...My support!!!!
I feel you should reconsider who your close people are, it's nice to be a humble down to earth person but still having such people as your close friends who do not value you as much as you do who do not care to fix things as much as you do then it's high time you reconsider
Also these things come and go in life so you need keep certain guards always up, because one person your friend today will be against you tomorrow and going around spilling your secrets so you need to be very peculiar about that
Sometimes when we get hurt,in my opinion I feel it's our fault became we let on wrong people we put our guards down in front of wrong ones we expect them to to show up to our expectations when they don't really care about our expectations, but at the end it's life we try we fall we learn we ace
In my opinion, there should be no ego and worldly formalities between real true friends, but it needs to be equal from all ends, as I see you have no ego and you always try to mend relations back which is a great trait in you, but you need to make sure it's equal from all ends and if it is not then you need to reevaluate if your friends really deserve you
And I would suggest that yes go ahead socialize and everything but be very peculiar about who you let in, because your boundaries' security your secrets' security everything is your responsibility, so once if that person goes wrong it's their fault but yours too because you lacked judgment
Hi! although you wrote everything very inconsistently and unclear, it's clear that you're trying to be good for everyone. It's characteristic of youth. Then you don't care how anyone evaluates you. Try not to please absolutely everyone...My support!!!!