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lo
lost
1y ago

Hatts off to the acting and mind game

I'm having a serious relationship but ended up being disappointed even after finding out solutions, having discussion with him, and even after things get sorted out or get accepted by me. I always come here to find solutions or clear out some things that stuck in mind. Rn, I'm totally confused how to not end up my relationship but end up his so called one sided relationship with his family. His sister n mother acted nice in front of him, said they have already accepted me and even like me, but what me n my family know is they're totally fake. He is being brainwashed and fooled by his own family members, argue with me everytime I want to make him realize. He used to say in every argument that I (me) don't like/accept his family now then htf will I accept them in future or after marriage. How to made him realize that he's being fooled? How to make him realize that i accept them but don't like them as they're just playing a game. They want to make us apart but not by being in this but by being a good great family of him who support our love but I am the person who spoiled everything, so that I'll become the reason of everything but not them.

Simply, his family don't want me to marry him so they're putting point/specifying things like I cnt do this this this (bet in the name of culture). But when I ask him for my basic rights, he started arguing with me, shout on me, and blaming me for not accepting his family, our culture, and rituals that should be followed at any cost. No man🥺

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bu
bubu
1y

You should explain him everything in detail, and he should believe you equally as he believes his family, but if he just believes one of the sides then, you should think thoroughly before taking any further step in this relationship, why would you like to stay with someone who doesn't trust you, trust faith respect love these are the building blocks of a healthy relationship, if even one of them is off, the relationship stays for the worse, think it through woman, it's about your life, about your peace and mental health

ah
ahaan
1y

You really need to evaluate the person you are with, LOVE is supposed to make you feel liberated, peaceful, not strangled, think it through, because you won't like to regret a decision like that

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