My mom's favorite mom...and I'm the favorite son. I also have a younger brother and sister. After the divorce, my mom got angry. I had to live on a regime, a lot of lessons, and not to eat after 18 (in case I "get fat"). I wanted to eat a lot, I was thin, and my grandmother furtively fed me. For which her mother scolded her. My mother worked 12-14 hours a day, and we children never saw her. My grandmother became my friend. My mother completely stopped understanding me. I argued with her. Then my father called and started to bring me up. I answered him harshly, because I hated his attitude towards all of us. How could he betray us like that? And then there's the estate lawsuit with the mother. Didn't he see how much money we were short? How mom saves money on everything? I wanted to prove to him that he was wrong and to my mother that I had a say in my own problems. And I became a "troubled" teenager! I don't drink alcohol or smoke. But I'm "difficult." Although I may have accumulated a lot of aggression and hatred towards others. For being happier than I am. One day my father informed me that I was being sent to a military boarding school. That was a twist! I didn't want to go! My mother said with tears in her eyes that my father was ready to pay for the boarding school, but she didn't have the means to support us all. Well, I'm redundant and there's no money for me. I don't want to be in the military. I want to live at home. I actively resisted. My father "bribed" me by buying me an expensive cell phone. I decided that I would pass the exam, get a phone and not go to boarding school. I passed the exams with "excellent", I got the phone, but my mother made me go there with her "hysterics". My expensive phone was taken away from me immediately at the entrance to the boarding school "it is not allowed". They cut my hair short and changed me into a uniform. I cried for a long time, missing home. But my mother does not want to listen to my tears. She immediately hangs up the phone. My father doesn't call at all. I fight in the boarding school, as I have a lot of accumulated anger to the whole world.... I beg my mother to take me away, but she is "deaf" to such requests......
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