Dear, beautiful model! I am sure in advance that you are very beautiful. And I want to support you! As a man I want to say that every man likes not all, but certain women. Be confident in yourself, your man will never be able to leave you. And if he could, he is no longer yours, and you do not need him.
You're just like my girlfriend! She's jealous of everyone! I tell her I don't need anyone and she doesn't believe me. Don't be like her, it makes me angry. Well, we men are not weak-willed...I'd like to date a girl who doesn't "nag" me. That's probably what your boyfriend wants, too.
Of course, I'm also jealous. But you surpassed me! You write that she is a very beautiful model. Be confident. Show your man that you believe in yourself. I also work on myself so as not to be jealous. Therefore, I suggest you think about what else you attract him besides your beauty. Maybe this is more important, because sometimes beauty is not everything.
Hi! Don't be so jealous of your boyfriend so much! Do some autotraining, it always helps. Tell yourself you're the best and the most beautiful. Realize that if he wants to leave, he'll leave regardless of your jealousy.
Don't be jealous of guys! There's no point. If you have to, they'll leave anyway! And if they need you, they won't leave! And if they leave, let them go, they don't need you! As soon as we try to hold on to someone, we lose all our inner strength.
@Veena Choudhary Thank you for your attention to my problems! I tried to do your homework. I can answer that I don't really like the guy. He loves me, I think. I've been dumped by guys in my life. So I think that if this guy looks at a pretty girl, he might go for her.
@brenden Thank you, kind man!!! Your words keep me going!!!
@gledner ank you. Your words made me look at the problem from a different angle. I'll try to stay out of conflict.
A feeling of jealousy is some times a sign which indicates there is a need to work on in the relationship or sone aspects of relationship which is not going as planned.
Stop and think about what you tell yourself about any situation you feel jealous. For example your boy friend looking at the girl in the bus. Did he look at her in the intention that he likes her or is it your mind imagining it? Assume you were in situation and you looked at a boy. if your boy friend presumes you liked the boy. how will you feel in that situation? If your intention was not like that.
I want you to do this exercise:
>>>> Your relationship with your boy friend. Rate the following points out of ten
Be aware where is it's going wrong. See if you love him and don't trust him then think what you can do to make it better. Talk to him, tell him your insecurities you are facing. If he loves you equally he would surely understand your feelings and help you out.
>>>> Write down Pro and con's in your relationship and Pro's cons about you and your boyfriend.
I want you to write Pro's and cons in the relationship with your boy friend. See is the pro's more than con's. if yes then see by jealousy what you will be losing. If there are more con's then you need to think what you can do to better the relationship but this is only if u want to be with him.
I want you to write pro's and con's of your boy friend too so that you are aware that you have invested your time and effort with the right person
>>>> Think why does the Jealousy arise. is there any previous episode were you felt betrayed, any past history which gives you that feeling.
If its your thought and not fact then start constructing your thoughts into positive one. Anything negative you feel start questioning yourself why do you feel like that? you will automatically get an answer if its fact or your imagination.
Did you have past with inferiority issues where any one looked down upon you for beauty.
Did you feel you were valued only because you felt you are beautiful
Start writing 5 good thing about you everyday. justify why do you feel that quality is good in you. Other than beauty there will be lot other qualities which will be positive in you. start looking at all the qualities in totality and feel proud of yourself.
try doing these strategies and see the changes. I would advice you to go for therapy to find the root cause and address this feeling.