It turns out that realizing your mistakes is inner freedom.

I want to tell my positive story. I'm not going to start out positive. I live with my wife, and I have a mistress. I don't make much money. Both women nag me. In general, one day I realized that I was "stuck" in some kind of life hole. I really wanted to "step up" somehow, to get out of the "walking in circles". No money, no normal love. I wondered what I was doing wrong in my life. I went to sit with a friend, to listen to his advice. Couldn't stand his advice because the buddy showed me a bunch of mistakes. I'm doing everything wrong! That's too much. That's when I started watching "success success" videos. They're crap. They're not even real. It took me a long time to figure out who to get advice from about my life. I didn't want to go to coaches and psychologists, it's very expensive. If I go to my parents' house...Oh!!! it'll be a week's worth of fighting. They'll tell me how bad I am and how I've done everything wrong. There was no one to take advice from. So I decided to talk to the foreman at my factory. What about him? He's a normal man, and he lives right. And the advice is free. it has to be said that the relationship is such that I don't want to tell you all the mistakes I've made in my life. I just came up to him and asked, "How do you think I can get out of my mess?". The foreman looked at me, called me over to the machine, and showed me how he made the part. "See, if I don't tell myself what I did wrong, the next one won't work." and that was all he said! A man works hard, no time to talk. I've been torturing myself and I realized! I don't admit and analyze my mistakes. That's why I make them again. This is what my parents say when they criticize me and my friend. in general, the main thing is that I "get it".It turns out that realizing your mistakes is inner freedom.