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rei
1y ago

maybe sexual harassment..?

I'm a 11 year old female, I don't care if nobody believes me and I don't care if people think I'm dramatic I just need to get this out of my chest nobody knows about this. Not my mom not my dad not my bro not my sis not my friends. Nobody. Nobody but one. My bestfriend.


When I was 9 I was just horrendous.i was stupid, stubborn and pretty much everything bad. So my mom got me this tutor. She was a 52-54? Year old woman. For a 54 year old she was quite built and like energetic. For the first few weeks, it was okay. I was learning stuff.. Getting along with her, but then she started locking the door to my room every time we do a session/study there. Then one day, she started to caress my thigh and told me her feelings.. Honestly just writing this disgusts me. I was disgusted at the time but I didn't say anything because I can't say no or say anything in that fact, to anybody. I was just pretty much antisocial, that kept happening and she kept calling me babe and shit I was basically her GF even though I didn't even say or do anything.. but my mom didn't know that. She just thought I was studying. Alot of stuff happened that I prob can't say and don't want to say but yea she did alot of stuff. To the point where I would pray to God or something to give her like a car accident or smth. Those were my genuine prayers. One time I was home alone and she was coming soon. Our sessions were at like 12pm, I sat on the couch, cried and just started full on sobbing while praying to God, some alone the line of "please please please make her not come. Mom isn't home I'm scared.. Please please come I don't want to be alone. Make her not come please please. Please". And like God actually heard me she didn't come and I never felt so relief in my life. Those God awful 13 or so minutes of my life just staring at the window of my front door just praying, crying and begging she wouldn't come felt like an eternity. Thank god she was fired. But not at the reason you might think, she was fired because she had some argument or something with my mom. This memory remained clear as day in my mind for the last 2 years. I just wanna think, and imagine. What if she was a male, what would she do..?

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bubu
1y

That is terribly hurtful to hear, I am glad she is not acquainted with you any longer but since you are young you need to hear this loud and clear my love, never ever hide stuff from your parents, it'll save you from everything, if you would have told your parents right after the first move which made you feel uncomfortable either she would have stopped doing it or she would have been fired, hereafter please always remember to always include your parents, you are young and you should tell your parents about such stuff because they will be able to take legal steps against it, never be scared to fight against what is wrong

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miathermopolis
1y

It is so disgusting to hear such scenarios, I am sorry you had to go through this terrible situation


Look you are young and you should know any problem you have any issue you have you need to inform your parents about it, they'll protect you from anything and everything, hiding stuff from them will only harm you any further I was in the same situation once when I was young, with my school van driver, I told my mother she told my father and they fought that guy and changed my van, so make sure you inform parents they'll do the best for you

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madyson
1y

I'm so sorry that this story happened to you!!!It's good that you wrote it at least here on the site. it would be a good idea to tell your parents, as this is a felony story for that woman. Don't be afraid of anything. Maybe the end of this situation will give you some relief!!!

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angie
1y

You've had some bad things happen to you. It's hard to fight alone, you have to decide to tell your parents. Don't be afraid of anything, get used to fighting for your rights and for yourself.

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angie
1y

I'm sorry you're in this situation. Your feelings are so intense that you need to get help from a specialist. Also, sexual desire for children is not common for women, so I'm confused. My sympathy and support!

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edythe
1y

I really wish you and your mom could have a relationship that would allow you to tell her everything! not to keep silent...and then there wouldn't be such a horrible story...you don't have to think about what she would do if she were a man...that's the past.

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