Letting go gets easier every day the more I acknowledge and accept that nothing in life is truly mine. Everything is an experience that exists to teach me and it’s up to me to either learn or remain ignorant. To be rich in spirit than wealthy with materials is the greatest form of prosperity and that’s all I strive to achieve for myself.

With me working full time now, I found myself anxious and disheartened at my inability to volunteer as regularly as I had when I was part time. I’m continuously trying to establish that balance between priority and pleasure but even having a routine, not being able to actively serve a community that’s a second home to me breaks my heart. However, upon learning about the ego and the discoveries helping reframe my perspective, it’s taught me something.

While I’m grateful the advocacy I’ve done (and will continue to do) doesn’t stem from wanting to enhance my self image, I found that the upset is because I see the pantry I work for as an extension of myself since its values and mission statement align with community goals I’ve worked towards. I’m not denying I’m still upset being unable to volunteer, but knowing I can always return when my schedule allows brings me peace.

Even if I can’t return, accepting that and acknowledging it was an amazing experience I had the pleasure of living is okay with me too. The peace I’m experiencing with this realisation is liberating, and I hope that even with whatever remaining anxieties I experience, I’ll learn from it too.

My dad is 45 around and he is having an affair with his colleague i found out in 2014 and i don't know how much before it started

He always deletes the messages he sends to her always deletes call history I don't know what to do in it can anybody give any suggestions

It doesn't ends here

There's a twist in it too

There's also another women he is having an affair with it but I doubt about that the girl on other side calls him brother but my dad does same here too deletes all messages and call logs and even also saves her name with some random guy name and talks with her for hours

Also here's a twist too

My mom knows all of this things but she doesn't raises a voice against him I don't know why

And when I talked this thing to my grandfather he supports my father's decision and says we have to stay mum

My mother does every things to make our financial condition better and my father goes in job but not earns that much

SOMEBODY'S GOTTA HELP ME

Me and my boyfriend are dating since 5 years , everything was fine in the first year , but later on he started loose intrest in me , he never treated me like I was his gf , i always felt lonely around him , we study in same college but different department postings , we usually meet when we have breakfast and lunch but he'll accompanied by his friends, he totally forgets that I'm with him , and even in the evening he hardly spends for 5 mins , when i ask him for time he always says i shld be happy with wt time he gave me , I never asked him for anything except for his time and talk, I got so fed up thought to break up , but he didn't let me go . His behaviour kept becoming worse he Started to abuse, we had two sever fights i slapped him and bet me so hard the got blood clot in my skin had headache for 4 days , when I tell him anything about how I feel , he kept saying I'm a good boyfriend, I do ntg for u , and so on .. he gave frns from his school who went to same tusion with him , idk anything about her she stay 400 miles away from us , I know that he text with her , but everytime I see the chat history will be deleted with her , the phone call history too , recently there was a chat he forgot to delete in that he asked her can he call . I asked him about that that he got offended we had a fight about y he kept on deleting the chat , if there was ntg to be afraid and normal chat y would I be mad , he told me he'll stop deleting the chats , but he did it again today, when I asked him about that y he deleted the chat he started speaking about how he's loyal to me no one will be loyal , he's not cheating and I don't deserve loyal boyfriend and so on , again i told him im not asking about texting her I'm asking about y he deleted the chat even after he told he won't , he always lied and manipulates me but this time it was so obvious, he started to bad mouth me , he even told I shld suicide that ppl around me can be in peace , i don't let him to be in peace , he doesn't care about me and my fellings , when ever we had fight, i get hurt he tell me to let go off it , but I can't coz I got hurt so badly by the person I loved , the next day or the very next moment he comes and talks to me as ntg happened between us , and past few months we never had a proper love conversation , when ever we are together i prefer to talk to spend quality time , but he's behind sex , he never talk to me with love or affection how can he expect me to be okay when he asked for sex , he gets angry about that too , so because my behaviour he sayshe lost peace in his life , I know I'm not perfect but I'm not bad to be told to die ..

My slow ADHD kid is gonna drive me crazy. My child has ADHD, and I came across an article about it. I want to share my experience with you. People often assume kids with ADHD are always hyperactive, but that's not the case for my child. In fact, my child sits all day or sleeps. It makes me sad to see him struggle, but we're working on finding ways to help him. He completes his school assignments at a sluggish pace and becomes fatigued rapidly. For instance, when it's time for homework, my child often just stares off into space. I have to work hard to keep his focus on the lessons. Even when we finally get started on the assignments, he gets tired very quickly. That's all. It's difficult for my child to concentrate in school, as he tends to daydream or doze off during classes. There's no point in hurrying. Scolding doesn't work. The child cries, which makes it impossible to continue with homework or engage them in the task. They cry for a while and then fall asleep. I'm unsure how to motivate them to study in school. He enjoys playing games on his cellphone, but after an hour of playing, he has outbursts. I'm having tantrums, too. I cry too. I can slap the baby. I'm ashamed of it. Then my husband comes and starts yelling at the child for not doing his homework. The child can do some of the assignments still. The next day he doesn't remember almost everything we taught him at home. He gets low grades at school. I don't know what to do anymore.