It's been 2 days since my mom and dad spoke to me. They behave like I don't exist, they are constantly giving me silent treatment. It's totally not there fault, I was sleeping and my young brother poured water on me after I woke up I did the same to him. My parent yelled at me , my mom cursed me by saying how you are going to handle you in laws and your husband. Just because I'm a girl, it doesn't mean everything about me is related to marriage only. I am too young to think about these things ,I have a life beside marriage but my mom doesn't understands that. My parents can't have an illmannered daughter but they can have an illmannered son. I don't see this is fair. I'm not saying they are toxic parents but when it comes to their children my brother always gets good treatment just because he is young and a boy but I don't get this treatment, what I get is silent treatment.

I'm in a relationship that I want to get out of but can't.

We met on Facebook, today is seven months old in our relationship, we have gone on dates only once in seven months.

I used to talk to him to pass the time but now the relationship has become very serious.

The girl was married once and has a two-year-old son. Her husband has been fighting with her and has been abroad for one and a half years. I don't know how to fight with her husband, but the girl's character is not so good. She is a village girl. She is a burden in her father's house after getting married. , the father always abused the girl, by finding me she gets a chance to share her sorrows and she wants to marry me, but I never want to marry her, I can't leave her because her parents stay with family and they are not by her side, she Helpless, I can't marry him again because his character is not that good, I don't like his character at all, I always told him to leave, she was very hurt and tensed when she heard that.

Neighbors she knows work from Mumbai, contact them she left home two months ago today to go to Mumbai so that she can work there and stand on his own feet, on the way she met me in Kolkata and we spent a lot of time together at OYO

Then I was so emotional that I asked her to stay with me instead of going to Mumbai and made many requests but she refused.

But she went to Mumbai and told me that she made a big mistake by leaving me and she wants to be with me.

My family will never accept our relationship.

Then confusion came in my mind, I couldn't decide which one to choose, after day after day of thinking, now I came to a decision that I have to get out of this relationship.

But I have a lot of affection for him because of his helplessness, I can't leave her in any way,

She says she will commit suicide if I leave her

Today she is working as a Caretaker in Mumbai for two months, at this moment she has some liver disease in her abdomen, bleeding with stool, at that time she told me that if I don't marry her, she will not treat her disease and she will die like this without treatment.

What should I do now, what would someone say?

Far from marrying her, I don't want to have any relationship with her anymore.

But she has no one but me.

She and her parents and her family neglected her and she doesn't want to return home, now the only thing in her mouth is if she doesn't get me she will die without treatment from Mumbai.

And my kid is a bully. He will never "play by my rules." He laughs and breaks them. He takes on everything, he's interested in everything, but it's all abandoned. I don't know what he's interested in, but everything I've bought him is lying around. He is capable of beating another child. It really stresses me out. What if he injures himself? What if he gets used to hitting and gets in trouble with the law when he's older? I tell him that hitting is not allowed, but he ignores it. The teacher at school thinks we don't explain the rules of behavior to the child. But my husband and I do every day!!! We yell the rules of behavior! And we punish the kid by taking away his cell phone. He still fights. A friend suggested we take the kid to a neurologist. The neurologist suggested ADHD. But he advised me to take the child to a psychiatrist. I was shocked-- me and the baby to a psychiatrist. He's crazy or something. But I did. My son didn't want to go at all. He was cursing and yelling. So I decided to trick him into going to the doctor. I left him on a chair in front of the door, and I went to the doctor's office first. My son was trapped by a grate that blocked his way outside. It was a large grate. And when I came from the psychiatrist to get the child to bring him into the office, I saw that my son had escaped. He had somehow gotten through the bars. I cried from helplessness. It was useless. Doctors say it could be worse than ADHD.

I have been married for two years and for months now my husband had been picking on every little thing I do, shouting and insulting me. I felt something wasn't right so I went to his phone where I discovered he has been cheating on me. At first I felt maybe I wasn't attractive anymore or because I now had a baby and he want fresh meat, only for me to discover this woman is married with two kids though having issues in her marriage but she isn't divorced. Then I also discovered she was the one behind all the expensive gifts my husband had been coming home with.

I confront my husband with his and he actually blames me for pushing him into it and if I can't tolerate it I can walk and he won't be the first to have a broken marriage after two years. I was pained lost in the thought of how I pushed him into cheating, so I managed to calm everyone down so we can talk properly, where he admitted that yes he is cheating and he isn't the first and won't be the last person to do so.

I put myself together and was just observing him, after few days, he came back home that evening begging that truly I didn't push him into anything, that it was all him, that he was sorry and won't put me in such situation again, he would do right by me, be home early and will stop picking on me. Then I asked his plan forward with his woman, then he said he can't call it quite with her like that because he doesn't want it to look like a use and dump situation, that he would look for a perfect situation to break it up with her so for now he will still have to be seeing her. I should give him My trust again.

Ofcus that wasn't okay with me but I love My husband and I want to save My marriage so what can I do. I accepted

But then, like he said he comes home early but doesn't spend time with my son and I. He is always on his cell phone and when I complain about this he shouts at me saying what do I want from him, do we want to kill him, so he shouldn't be free in his own house, that I am caging him.

I tried to explain to him that all I ask for is at least 30min of his time outside his mobile phone with us. Instead of always being body present but absent minded.

But no matter how I say he sees it as my lack of trust for him, that I feel he is chatting with that woman.

I can't also call him while he is not at home, he shout at me that I am disturbing him and I am calling him because I don't trust him thinking he is with another woman.

I am confused, tired, emotionally and mentally drained, above all I don't know what to do, I can't talk to my parents about this I don't have anyone to talk to anymore. I am marriage yet I am even more lonely that a single lady. I am tired and don't know what to do.