I (30F) have been reflecting on my relationship with alcohol and it's made me wonder if I might have a problem. I've always struggled with sadness and loneliness, and in my 20s I turned to drinking as a way to escape those feelings. Unfortunately, it often led to me blacking out and having sex without any memory of it. I developed intense hangovers and vomiting became a regular occurrence.

During a particularly difficult relationship, I became severely depressed and stopped taking care of myself. When I did go out, I would drink heavily to feel happy again. It was hard to control myself and I often woke up not knowing how I got where I was. Eventually, I found a job with a great boss and started feeling better. I began hooking up with guys who treated me well, but I still drank a lot and did things I'm not proud of. Now, I have a boyfriend who helped me realize that my drinking was becoming a problem. But I still drink. How can I overcome this?

This is my third relationship and whatever he's good i feel good but the problem is he Always gets mad at me for tiniest things and sometimes i understand and keep it down but later when i voice my feelings, he is like so what? it's me who's shouting at you ,can't you even take that? and he just disrespects me like that and i feel like talking to no one(family and friends) and whenever we get into a fight it's me who always have to saysorry and beg no matter how much am hurt. it's like there are double rules, i can't do something that he can do and when I'm with him I'm always anxious thinking that he might get mad if i do this or say this, he says he's always irritated because of me even with the slightest things.

he blames me wherever we fight until we conclude "it's all my mistake " even though i didn't do anything to deserve that always feel lonely and worthless but i dont want to leave him because when i started this relationship i thought him or nothing but now my heart aches so much

I have been this guy for 4 months now

we really love each other , but we have been having reoccurring issues and it’s affecting our relationship. And am the cause of the problem. We have communication issues, transparency and other similar issues . But I don’t do all things intentionally. I need help , his giving us 2 months to see how his relationship goes and I want to use this months wisely because I don’t want to let my man go. I do love him

I'm love marriage. I'm pregnant 6 month. My husband afair with another girl. He's angry with me. Not carring. Mentally and physically torture with him. He's ready to break up our relationship. But I'm not gone