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anonymous
1y ago

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I recently gone through a breakup and that left me with a lot of questions that am I not pretty enough or am I not enough

Ik it's all gone and done but it's hard to get over betrayal by your fav person and that too after 2.5 years of investment in them where they don't believe in you now

They left me with self doubt and

I feel like not included unwanted unloved

Sometimes i wonder and regret to get into this relationship but ik it doesn't matter anymore because it's all in the past but i can't get my mind off from things .

He lives in my neighborhood so i have to face him and his new her . I never talked to them but he left it on such note where I don't want to see him . it's hard to watch them together idk why people do that making someone feel like that.

Ik I'm overthinking it but its already been 6 months of my breakup and I'm still stuck

I have this job which I always dreamed off and now I'm dobuting it that am I going to achieve it . I lost some weight because I don't feel like eating somedays and ik it's unhealthy but idk what to do I can't study i can't focus because of him I lost some of my friends because we use to have common friends and now they are good friends of him and mine too they are nice but i can't blame them for anything they tried from there end to be friends with me but I don't want to put them in such spot so i maintain my distance.

Ik everything is in past now and do understand i can't do anything I can't change anyone or any situation but still idk why I'm not giving up on that thoughts

He ruined everything for me and ik it's wrong to blame him for everything because it's not his problem it's mine

At this point I shouldn't be worring about all this and should be focusing on my career it's crucial year for me

idk what to do honestly I have to give up now i have to stop now

Plz help

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[User deleted]
1y

Hey!

First of all, Thanks for hanging on there eventhough you don't want to. You said It's a really important year for you as you have to achieve your dreams. I really hope you achieve your dream!

And i think you said your ex boyfriend had a new 'her' now. Let me just say, he is not there with you to support you acheive your dream but I guess because of your unconditional love for him made you to a state like this. He has a new one now even though you couldn't move on...Look He did move on... So why should you sacrifice your dreams and happiness for him? I'm not blaming anyone. I'M SAYING YOU SHOULDN'T BLAME YOURSELF!

Just keep on working hard... You will make it there! And stop being stuck in past. It will slowly kill you if you don't... Now or soon!

HOPE YOU ACHIEVE YOUR DREAM AND HOPE YOU FIND PEACE AND HAPPINESS...

YOU WILL FIND THE RIGHT ONE SOMEDAY..

TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!

LOTS OF LOVE<3



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shanaya
1y

I've been there, but lemme tell you something, when they leave you, they're trying to satisfy their own small stupid ego because they don't really get people who treat them right or beg them to stay in one's life, don't do what I did, do not satisfy his ego, the biggest comeback you can make is being happy without him, and even if he gets triggered by that and approaches you don't take him back, dont repeat the same mistake, focus on yourself, your courier, your health, your social gatherings, parents that's all, he's nobody, YOU ARE THE PROTAGONIST OF YOUR LIFE.

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bubu
1y

TOXIC GUY, there's just one answer that you dated a toxic and wrong guy, and when they want to break up choose a new girl they tend to end things on such a not that you feel ugly hated gaslit, do not waste another microsecond thinking or crying over him, you deserve your dream job, you deserve your dream man, and everything that makes you happy, do me a favor and start believing and loving yourself a bit more, join gym, improve yourself, eat healthy and proper, be that woman you wanna be, and let that jerk regret his loss

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