I can understand mannnn!!! Its really tough to see the hope in your parents eyes for you even you are trying your best and sometimes that is not even enough. Stay strong and don't be so hard on yourself
Good things takes time and no matter how hard you try everything take time so just relax and also spend time with your parents and with yourself and if you ever need someone to talk about something i'll always be here for you whenever you are ready whenever you feel comfortable you can message me and you don't have to feel any type of burden.Your parents trust you i m sure and one day you're gonna make them proud for sureeee.
Stay happy.
Stay blessed.
@Haileybrook521 Thank you means allot
I firmly believe you need to realize your real potential
You need to realize you're here on this planet with this beautiful life for a bigger purpose than dating someone
As you said you wanna do things for your parents, then do it and do not let anything come in between that, nothing should come between the success you want, people come into out lives, stay and leave, their departure should not concern us so much, it's life nothing is permanent, take it as a beautiful pahse which eventually had to end so it did, now you have another thing to deal with, get your will and thoughts accumulated there and act over your intentions
I understand it can be hurtful when something as such happens but do not let someone else control your life your future, of course your ex is not controlling it directly but indirectly, their memories and your need to have them back is holding you back from your actual potential, do not let someone else be the main character of your life, do what is needed for your healthy life, what is needed to keep you happy, what is needed to keep your parents happy, do not let anything stop you, especially someone like this person who herself is unstable about her life decisions, about who she sees permanent and who not and sudden changes etc. you deserve someone stable and who compliments your life who adds meaning to your life, not someone who makes your life a living hell, think about it budd , be absolute selfish when it comes to protecting your emotions, your mental health, your parents expectations, set your priorities straight
Hello! After reading your post I have only one question. Why do you think that these 4 years of relationship were wasted? Maybe it’s not correct to undervalue them. There must have been bright moments. I am sure that this relationship gave you valuable experience at least. As for your parents, yes, they worry about you for sure. And it may even seem to you that you haven’t’ justified their expectations. But first, this is your life and you have the right to live it your way. You can make mistakes because all people do this, and it’s natural. Mistakes doesn’t matter, what is more important is drawing right conclusions and move on with this experience. Second, you’re only 24, you’ll have plenty of time to reach your goals and even more. There’s no point in blaming yourself for your past, because it can’t be fixed. You’d better ask yourself the following question: “What can I do right now?” I wish you be more optimistic and have an opportunity to reach your goals! You will definitely succeed in it!