Hey girl, I'm sorry to hear about what's happening, look if no one said this to you then hear it from me, you're a very very strong and intellectually smart woman and I'm proud of you, I understand it hurts when your own don't validate you enough, why don't you try expressing yourself strongly, why don't you sit one day and express how their behavior make you feel about yourself, maybe that'll help, but lemme tell you something very honestly, sometimes you have to stand alone and strong even against your family sometimes, if they're in the way of your bright future your dreams your mental health anything, you need to take stand for yourself, I know I completely get it, it hurts but what else will we do feel miserable for ourselves, cry about our lives no, god gave us this battle for a reason, and you need to win it, and not surrender in front of them, stand strong woman, you're inspiration to others, don't forget that
I personally feel so glad to see a woman like you who is so so good at her life, honey look, take this as a god's test, you're perfect, seriously I am not trying to flatter you, I mean it, you're perfect yet you have a family as such and surroundings as such, this is a clear lesson from god that no matter how perfect you are human nature is to always seek approval from others WHY?!?!?! you are brilliant why do you need to hear this from them, don't care no more, but yeah make sure you're respected and not harmed, rest does not matter, you're a queen already and you don't need a crowning ceremony from them to get approval, OKAY???
I really got goosebumps when i read ur life n tears in my eyes.....
U r dealing with a LOT.....
U r enough and u r doing your best... those persons just don't know your value.
U r the best and you are doing great in your life and we all know that you goona take your future to the nexy level.
I don't know what to say to make u feel better but for me......u r the worlds most hardworking and amazing person.🌟
We all are here for you🌟n believe me....u have the fighter spirit, just don't loose it....🥺...
@Dr. Elisabeth Jones thank you so much!!🥺❤️
Hello, Rai! Unfortunately, many children endure violence in their families. I don’t think it could be justified. Nobody deserves to be treated badly by relatives, especially children. I understand that it is hard for you to live in this atmosphere. What can you do right now? First, stop proving something to your parents. They labeled you as a “bad child” for whatever reason and your achievements will never make them think differently. Stop trying proving things either to them or to yourself, you’re wasting your time and energy. Second, you should accept the fact that your parents’ attitude does not determine you as a person. If they think you’re “different” it doesn’t mean you are different. Objectively this is wrong. You have accomplishments, you’ve achieved a lot. You did a great job! All of us need attention, love and support from close people. Unfortunately, it is not always possible and you need to learn that waiting for this is pointless. Of course, it sounds unfair, but this is life.
So where can you find support then? First, it’s you. You are a very strong and determined person, you have enough resources to cope with this situation. Second, you can find support in anything you like, for example, hobbies or other things, which you’re interested in. Do something you like. This will both bring you positive emotions and distract from negative thinking. Third, there must be someone around you (at least one person) who treats you well, someone you trust. Someone who can support you. This can be your relative, a friend or even a school psychologist. Sometimes we really need help and support, so don’t be afraid of asking for it.