Hi, welcome! What you're writing about resonates with me from 5-7 years ago. I think you haven't yet met your person with whom you'll have that special connection and who'll take you for who you are. It's incredibly hard, but do not doubt that such a person exists! And your friends deeply care about you, even if they don't know how to show it. Your experiences may be a bit different, it doesn't mean you can't support each other on your way to happiness and self-realization.

Why do you think relationships are all about sex? It's such a typical stereotype... A healthy relationship is when both partners are committed to each other's well-being and have good times together. Nothing stops you from having that with anyone you want.. Family will understand, they've lived their lives however they wanted, you'll do it your own way.

Hi, I agree with copilot, love is so much more than physical connection! It's affection, tenderness, emotional and financial support. A lot of couples absolutely lack some or all of these other aspects, even those who have a fine sexual life. It's totally up to you to decide what kind of a union you prefer

I may be asexual. Think I’m gay too... or bi? I have zero life experience with relationships. I like to hang out with people and want them to like me, but I don’t care about sleeping with them.

Hey, you still have lots of time to figure out what you want, your friends will respect your choices. I’m male, and I can tell you: sex isn’t the deciding factor for most men. Our culture is way too focused on sexual attraction. The best rule of thumb is you don’t have to do anything unless you want it.

It’s normal to have no sexual interest before you get to know a person, this shouldn’t in any way stop you from getting close to them or starting a relationship. Why not meet with the boy your parents tried to acquaint you with? Just experiment with what you like and don't hurry to make serious life decisions

I had to google what asexual means. I’m almost 60, and I didn’t know what I wanted till mid-40s... You’re so young, there’s a whole lifetime ahead of you!

AFAIK, those who describe themselves as asexual do not discard all affections in their life. It only implies less interest in sex, not even total lack of interest. You'll be able to create healthy relationships as soon as you accept yourself and stop worrying about other people' judgement.

Judging by my online bubble of social networks, asexuality is the new trend. At least two of the people I follow came out this year. It’s a relatively new idea (for some), but I think you’ll be surprised to find out how many people can say the same thing about themselves in some measure. Asexuals do make families and may have children. It only means that sexual life won’t be crucial in your future relationships.

The fear of loneliness haunts me too. Why is it so hard to find people who care? I haven't heard the term "asexual" before and learned quite a lot today, thank you. I'm relieved to know that it's becoming acceptable to strive for emotional intimacy over physical intimacy. Wish you to cope with your fears!