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Mitchel
34d ago

BACK TO LIFE with Creativity

As a content creator, part of the reason I quietly stepped away from media and became selective with who I collaborate with is because after reflecting on past connections, it opened my eyes to how people will support you until they perceive your success as their failure; now youā€™re a threat to their self-esteem. Itā€™s disheartening because while my mission statement is to educate, entertain and encourage, I said to myself Iā€™d never become an influencer who doesnā€™t interact with their supporters. But after so many instances of others attempting to slander and defame me, take advantage of my kindness or simply experience abundance by proximity, Iā€™ve had to reform my approach.


If it wasnā€™t one-sided competitions then it was attempted sabotage. Iā€™ve had ā€œfriendsā€ try to destroy my spirit but when THAT failed, they resorted to one-upping me. Because Iā€™m secure and increasingly becoming more content with my Being, Iā€™m never envious of others. I donā€™t know what that person had to do to get what theyā€™re at nor do I want to, but if thereā€™s something someone has that I want, I can achieve it myself. Might not happen today or tomorrow but I trust that it will. If it doesnā€™t, I take that as the universe saying itā€™s not meant for me. Seeing other people accomplish their goals motivates me in my own pursuit which is why I love watching others win.


And after a 6 month hiatus, I feel ready to return. Iā€™m not internalising the insecurities people project onto me nor am I engaging with mindless drama. Iā€™ve come to realise that the reason some people have developed animosity toward me is because of their own shortcomings and they dislike the genuine passion I put into my craft.


Thereā€™s people assuming the volunteering I do is to curate the image Iā€™m someone who can do no wrong which is far from the truth, because you can be a shitty person and still do ā€œgood deeds.ā€ I advocate because I understand what itā€™s like to live in an underserved community. I understand what itā€™s like to struggle financial stability, food security, have accessibility to healthcare and other resources. Itā€™s having that experience that helps building relationships with my and neighbouring communities easier and more fulfilling. Thereā€™s people upset at me for being a non Latino/hispanic, Spanish-speaking person, despite the fact Iā€™m open about learning with Duolingo and have been for 2 almost 3 years. Mind you, it takes nothing at all to install and learn the language themselves yet they donā€™t, theyā€™re just upset that Iā€™m putting forth the effort.


Even constantly facing an influx of unnecessary bullshit, I truthfully donā€™t care about the people perceiving me. I care about those who see me for who I am and what I strive to do, not the roles and titles I have as an advocate, creator, etc. While Iā€™m gradually easing back into media, Iā€™ve created and am taking an approach that works for me and am excited to get back in my motion!

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IamHere
33d

Welcome back to creating content! Your honesty about the challenges you've faced with fake friends and one-sided competitions is refreshing in a world where everyone pretends everything is perfect. Your determination to stay authentic despite the negativity you've encountered is truly commendable. I'm curious about your advocacy work - what causes are closest to your heart?

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Mitchel
33d
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@IamHere Thank you! If itā€™s something else I try to do with my content itā€™s show that thereā€™s truth to the saying ā€œnot everything is as it seems.ā€ I have an older post that goes into detail about the misconceptions people have about content creators but the more authentic, the better.


A cause thatā€™s close to my heart is human rights, but more specifically for minority groups. Iā€™m continuously advocating for black and brown communities because our communities are the ones most impacted by poverty, food insecurity, proper education and safe environments. A second is advocating for black and POC, LGBTQ individuals.

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IamHere
32d

@Mitchel Yay! šŸŽ‰ I can definitely can behind what you're advocating for, keep going šŸ™ā¤ļø

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Mai
33d

It's powerful that you're choosing to focus on those who genuinely support you rather than trying to please everyone

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Mitchel
33d
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@Mai my people-pleasing ways are far behind me, thank therapy for that! If everyone likes me then thatā€™s an issue. Itā€™s better to be yourself than to create and uphold an image I say

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robsmith343252
33d

Reading your post resonated with me on so many levels. The creative journey can be incredibly isolating when others misinterpret your intentions or feel threatened by your authenticity.


I've observed that the most genuine creators often face the most pushback because they challenge others to examine their own motivations. Your break sounds like it was exactly what you needed to recalibrate and set healthy boundaries.Creating content with intention and boundaries will likely attract the right audience anyway. The people who truly value what you bring will stick around, and those are the connections worth nurturing.

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Mitchel
33d
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@robsmith343252 I wish I could pin your comment, you articulated everything perfectly in the most concise way possible. Thank you! Itā€™s refreshing to meet people who understand and it makes me happy to know Iā€™m not alone in experiencing this.

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Mitchel
33d
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@robsmith343252 really? Iā€™m shocked! You have an amazing way with words and Iā€™m grateful you took the time to leave me with words of wisdom as well as kindness.šŸŽˆ thank you again!

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robsmith343252
33d

@Mitchel Thank you so much! You're so kind. I've always been told that I'm not good with words, so that's a really nice comment! <3


You're definitely not alone, I feel you so much!

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robsmith343252
31d

@Mitchel Yeah šŸ˜… I actually used to get bullied a lot because of it, but your comment sure did stuck with me, thank you! <3

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creative_josh
12d

@robsmith343252 I admire to be just like you fr

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katie
33d

Personal growth often requires reevaluating relationships, and it sounds like you've done that important work. Connection without competition is rare but invaluable, I'm very-very proud of you, friend!

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Mitchel
33d
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@katie Thank you so much! Every day Iā€™m doing the work to make sure Iā€™m reprogramming myself to have a healthier outlook on life, proper responses to conflict and more. I appreciate your kindness and encouragement.šŸ™šŸ¾

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RayBarnett
31d

@katie That's so true! Some time ago I had to step back and evaluate my relationships, and that turned out pretty awesome for me, so hoping that everyone's get to this chance in life to be themselves and do what they love ā¤ļø

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Kevin Sand
30d

So glad to see you returning to your creative path! It's always challenging when people project their insecurities onto you, but your decision to focus on genuine connections shows real wisdom. Taking that hiatus probably gave you much-needed perspective. Your approach of staying true to yourself while setting boundaries sounds healthy and sustainable

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Billa
26d

@Kevin Sand I agree! Navigating the world of content creation requires such a delicate balance between sharing authentically and protecting your energy.

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SunriseHope
23d

I too started going back to my creative outlets that I was unable to pursue due to some personal issues! How do you find it do far? For me it's kinda refreshing to go back to something that I once loved

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Carrie Keller
16d

Going thru the same thing right now! Praying for us

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