Just had an argument with my boyfriend of 10 years. He still wants to move to North Carolina and have us live there even though I don’t want to live 10 hours away from my family while he’d be living near his family. It just isn’t fair. He keeps saying “oh I’ll take you back to your family for the holidays and on weekends” but how can you do that all the time?  I keep saying we should live up equal distance between both of our families, but he keeps saying no when he says that I’m being selfish and throwing away everything we’ve had together for 10 years. I’m not trying to be selfish. I’m trying to find the right situation for the both of us. He says we can’t figure anything out then we have to break up. He says that I’m breaking his heart. I feel like a monster right now and I’m not trying to be. I’m just trying to find the best solution for both of us. 
Hi I'm feeling depressed so much mein itni jyada pareshan hu ki mujhe samajh nhi aa rha kya kru I have a boyfriend or Mein use pichle 8 saal se janti hu or hum dono ko 2 saal ho gya h relationship main aaye hue relationship ke starting main 1 saal bhot acha tha humari baat 1-2 din baad hoti thi kyonki wo us time job krta tha to time nhi milta tha pr wo time nikalta tha 5 min hi shi or baat krta tha pr abhi issi saal se hum dono ke bich kuch thik nhi chal rha h ek to wo mere se baat nhi krta jaldi or reply nhi krta mein to bhi samjhti hu ki kaam ka family presure uske Ghar main kuch thoda bhot chalta rehta h mein usse itna pyar krti hu ki mein bta nhi skti or usse meri feelings ka pura pta h ki mein uske liye kya sochti hu but ab thodi si bhi ladai hoti h to gusse main basr baar bol deta khatam kr lo mein jese tese usko bol ke rok leti hu wo saaf kehta h ki ab mere andar koi dard koi pyar or koi feelings nhi h kisi ke liye or mujhe ye samajh nhi aata ki aesa kya ho gya h ki mere jane se bhi use koi fark nhi pad rha h wo pehle bilkul aesa nhi tha or ab mein use samjha ke thak gyi hu mein usse kuch bhi clear puchti hu to wo meri baato ka bhot ghuma ghuma ke jawab deta h breakup Krna 1 sec main bhot aasan h pr mere ye chiz hogi nhi kyonki ek insan ko pichle 8 saal se chahna or 1 min main uske sath sab khatam kr kese bhool jau agar wo mujhe chod dega to meri halt kya hogi mujhe pta h mein already ek overthinkar hu or ab bhot jyada darti hu is chiz se mein ek dam sadme main hu or mere iske releted ajeeb se sapne aate h mein sach main usse bhot jyada pyar krti hu please koi advice de jisse mein hum dono ke bich sab thik kr sku wo future ko le kr itna ajeeb ho gya h ki wo bs yhi nolta h ki mujhe apna career chahiye or bhot Sara pesa kma sku bs mujhe or kuch nhi chahiye ek baar shaadi ki baat ho gyi to usne kha ki mein shaadi to apne Ghar walo ki marzi se karunga or agar tumhara liye mene baat bhi ki to wo syd Mane bhi na wo hum dono ke future ko le kr sour nhi h jab ki jab hum dono ka relationship start hone wala tha to hi mene use bol Diya ki mein serious relationship chahti hu mere sath time paas mt Krna or usne kha bhi ki haa pr ab situation aesi j ki kya kru kuch samajh nhi aa rha please help me please hath jod rhi hu nhi to mein sach main mar jaungi uske Bina kya hoga Mera mein khud nhi janti please help
My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 years and we are experiencing some issues right now. I won’t go into any details, but I will just say that there is no domestic violence involved or anything like that. I’m trying to find us some online Compass therapy since we don’t live together and we live in separate states. I am currently on Medicaid and he has his own insurance. I want us to get couples therapy to help each other. Does anyone know where I can find affordable online couples therapy?
Recently my boyfriend has been busy.. I have attachment issues nd i can't stop thinking about the worst possible outcomes nd make myself sad he is so busy he doesn't even get a lil bit to time to call me ik he loves me.. But honestly it hurts.. I feel like i have to beg him
Well, I feel ripped growing between me and my boyfriend of 10 years. He wants to move to North Carolina with his parents because they’re moving there to be closer to his sister who lives there, but I don’t know if I want to live there because I’ll be really far away from my family, and I don’t want that. I want us to find a place that’s an equal distance between both of our families but every time I give him an idea, he seems to shoot it down. He never seems to wanna listen to how I’m feeling. I love him and I know that he loves me and he would never hurt me but lately I feel like he has been getting way too stubborn , going on and on about money and stuff but he never looks at any place with me . I told him that I want to live on my own for a bit first since I live with my parents right now that way I can get an idea of what it’s like to live on my own, but he doesn’t think I can do it because of my emotional state since I have a lot of mental health issues But I know I can do it. I wish I could find a way to get him to listen but I don’t know how. My mom and dad keeps saying that I need to put my foot down and tell him what my plan is. Which is to find a better job that will allow me to work from home and get my own place to see what it’s like and if I want to live in North Carolina or not, but the thing is we’ve been living long distance since he lives in Pennsylvania and I live in New Jersey for the past 10 years and I don’t know what else to do. I feel like I’m at such a loss
