Maladaptive daydreaming is basically a term used to describe when excessive daydreaming starts interfering with your daily life, work, or relationships. It involves immersing yourself in imaginary worlds or scenarios for hours and often causes problems in your reality. It's like creating your own little world to escape real life for the most part. It may be difficult to differentiate between a healthy imagination and maladaptive daydreaming. However, if you're finding it hard to focus on actual life activities due to these constant fantasies, it might be time to step in with professional help.
Have you ever thought about translating your day dreams into something physical, like a graphic novel or a series of paintings? Sometimes, giving your imagination a physical form can help you process your thoughts and feelings. Another idea is to create a "daydream journal" where you write down your daydreams in detail. Later, you can revisit them and see if they spark any new ideas or insights.
@ᡴ 𓇼 ᴖ You're on fire today! I agree again! OP, ur imagination is a gift, and it sounds like it’s been a lifeline for you. I’ve had my share of daydreaming too, and what helped me channel it was turning those dreams into a game. I started creating my own tabletop role-playing game. It allowed me to build worlds and characters, letting my imagination run wild, but in a structured way. I even got a few friends to play it with me. It was like living in my daydreams but with a purpose. You could try creating a game or even a book! It gives your imagination a productive outlet and can be incredibly fulfilling. Plus, sharing it with others can bring a new dimension to your dreams. Give it a try.
I relate to what you're going through. I've been experiencing these intense daydreams for as long as I can remember, and it's almost like living in a different world sometimes. It's funny because I didn't even know there was a term for it until I read your post. "Maladaptive daydreaming" is new to me, but it makes so much sense now that I think about it.
People have always told me that my imagination is a gift. They say it's cool and creative, but they don't realize how much it can interfere with everyday life. For instance, I've found myself zoning out in the middle of conversations, and it's pretty embarrassing when someone has to snap me back to reality. It's like I'm physically present but mentally somewhere else entirely.
There are times when I get so caught up in my daydreams that I lose track of time. I'll start imagining a different scenario or world and before I know it, hours have passed. It's gotten to the point where it's affecting my work and relationships. I can't focus on tasks at hand, and it's really frustrating.
I used to think it was just a way to escape reality, especially during tough times. But lately, it's been more of a hindrance than a help. It's hard to stay grounded when my mind is constantly wandering off to these vivid, imaginary places. I've even started to feel like I'm living less in the real world and more in my head.
It's comforting to know that I'm not alone. Thank you for sharing your story
I wish I could relate. My dad suffers from alcohol addiction. Before he sought help he was becoming abusive, now it's getting better. It was really hard to deal with those moments at home. I wish I could just run away to a different place or escape somehow. I don't have the same imagination as you, and I think it's so cool that you can create such vivid worlds in your mind. When things get really tough, I try to distract myself with music or by going for a walk. But it's not always enough. Reading about your experiences with daydreaming and how it helps you cope is really inspiring. It makes me wonder if I could try something similar, even though I'm not very good at imagining things.
I think it's absolutely amazing that you have the talent and creativity to write short stories and poems based on your daydreams. It sounds like a beautiful and fulfilling way to express yourself and find some inner peace. I genuinely wish I had that kind of artistic outlet, but unfortunately, I feel like I'm so boring in comparison haha. I would love to hear more details about your daydreams and the fascinating process you go through to create your stories and poems. It sounds like such a wonderful and magical escape from the mundane realities of the world. I could really use that kind of imaginative escape in my life, especially during stressful times haha
@santinonikolaus552 I feel you! It’s like a blessing and a curse at the same time. I also have ADHD with that and it’s kinda hard for me. Sometimes I feel like my mind is just racing all the time, jumping from one thought to another without any control. I can be in the middle of a task and suddenly I’m daydreaming about something completely unrelated. It’s like my brain has a mind of its own. I try to stay focused, but it’s hard man! I just get so lost in my thoughts that I forget what I was doing in the first place. I’ve also found that talking to someone who understands what I’m going through can be really helpful. It’s comforting to know that I’m not alone and that others are dealing with similar things.
@wanda47155 oh, have you tried this? Make up. That helps when my ADHD gets out of control. I know it might sound odd, but doing something creative like makeup can be really grounding. When I’m feeling overwhelmed or my mind is racing, I sit down with my makeup kit and start experimenting with different looks. It’s a way for me to focus my energy and creativity in a productive way. Plus, it’s fun and gives me a sense of accomplishment. Makeup requires a lot of attention to detail, so it forces me to concentrate and stay present. It’s almost like a form of meditation for me. I get to play with colors and textures, and it takes my mind off everything else. Another thing that helps is having a routine. I know it’s not always easy to stick to a schedule, especially with ADHD, but having some structure can make a big difference.
WOW! I tend to get distracted in worlds created by other people. For example, I like to read fantasy! I've loved it since I was a kid, and you can create these worlds in your head? That's so cool! I think it's a natural human response to want to escape into a different world or a different reality and that's so cool that you can do it that easily. I wish haha
daydreaming can be a nice escape, but it sounds like it’s taking over your life. maybe try balancing it with some real-world activities. i used to daydream a lot, too, especially when i was stressed. but i found that engaging in hobbies it’s cool that you have a vivid imagination, but don’t let it consume you. and yeah, maladaptive daydreaming is a thing. you might want to look into it more and see if it fits what you’re experiencing. balance is key.
Derealization will make it hard for you to focus on task or remember things. It would make you feel anxious, depressed or hopeless. Person would feel that things happening around you seems from another world. Person would feel that he/she is not part of the surroundings or its like dream or movie. Person would be aware of the situation and has insight. Person knows reality around them but they don't feel part of it.
Therapist would use various ways to deal with it:
It's calling or activating your senses to help you feel more in touch with reality.
>>> Playing loud music to engage hearing
>>> Holding ice cubes to feel sensation
>>> Doing 5,4,3,2,1 technique where we sit down at one place. just breathe for 2 min. Inhale through nose and exhale through mouth. calm your senses and then start observing the surrounding you are sitting in. list 5 things you see around you, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell and 1 thing you can taste. notice minute details in the surroundings. This help you to be in touch with reality.
This involves 8 phases of treatment that focus on past, present and future. Each of this phase helps in dealing emotional distress and trauma then learn skills to cope with current and future stress.
>>> Discussing the painful memories, events or experiences from the past as well anything in the current. Based on this therapist will decide which specific memory to address
>>> Next step would be to learn ways to deal with anxiety by doing mental exercises like
# Guided imagery: Sit down in a comfortable place. close you eyes. Take a few deep breath so body can start relaxing. Visualise a peaceful, calm setting such as lake or beach etc. Picturise the scene and keep adding details like warmth of sun, cold air etc. Linger in the scene for few minutes. Person can stay in the scene to relax and stay calm. once done open the eyes and stretch gently to reenter the present.
>>> Now based on the specific memory you selected, you will start identifying several components for this memory:
# A vivid mental image related to the memory
# A negative belief about yourself
# Emotions or body sensation you are having
You will have to identify a positive belief about yourself related to the mental picture of the memory and rate this belief according to how true it is. once you have strengthened your positvie belief you will have to note if you have any sort of physical response while thinking of the target memory, The purpose is to identify if you have any distress. Till your distress is not completely gone you have to continue doing this.
Other than this kindly do these as well to help you out: