Lately, I’ve been feeling overwhelmed and unsure of how to manage my emotions and actions. It’s as if my mind is constantly racing, and I have no control over my thoughts. I find myself wanting to stay alone most of the time, waiting for the people I love to come around. But when they do, I struggle to tolerate them, and it leaves me feeling conflicted and frustrated.
I’ve also noticed a pattern where I feel the need to control everything in my life—every situation, every interaction—and deep down, I know it’s not healthy. This constant need for control is exhausting and affects the way I interact with others and how I see myself.
I’m sharing this because I want to take a step toward understanding what’s happening and finding the tools to make positive changes. It’s not easy to open up about these feelings, but I believe the first step to healing is acknowledging them. If anyone else has felt this way, I’d love to hear how you managed or any advice you might have.
Thank you for listening.
I feel ya. Job hunting can be tough, especially when you encounter scammers who prey on hopeful job seekers. Those employment scams are unfortunately common, and it doesn't mean you're stupid at all - these people are professional manipulators who know exactly which buttons to push. The good thing is that you recognized the scam before losing any money. That's actually pretty smart! Try to see this as a learning experience rather than a failure. Maybe take a break from job hunting for a few days to reset your mindset, then get back out there with some new red flags to watch for.
@Carla Simmons I’m glad I didn’t lose money but I really can’t afford to just stop. I need a second job soon. The current one I work at only has me working two days a week ( it’s an after school based program) because not a lot of people are paying for other classes. The current one I have is booked until June which is good but what if I lose it? I need to find something else fast
@richardstanley8641 no I didn’t I’m still looking
@megan kohler Hi! How are you right now? Did you find something?
@megan kohler I was in the same situation last year! All I can say is that things change and please don't get discouraged but these people. They are trash! Don't even pay attention to them
Finding a good job is hard even when there aren't scammers involved. What's important is that you didn't fall for it completely. Consider volunteering at local theaters to build connections while you search for paid opportunities?
@Wisdommmm Why theaters? Just asking
@Wisdommmm I do love theater, especially Broadway musicals. It is the one thing that truly makes me happy. However, as much as I want to volunteer, I need a job that pays. I just need to be practical now
@Wisdommmm I love theater. I love Broadway theater like I said it is the one thing that really makes me happy. I just don’t know if I can volunteer right now because I’m trying to find another job. I’d love to perform again though
@megan kohler Just because you mentioned that finding a theater group is important for you. Do you think it's possible right now? You don't need to volunteer, btw, it just helps me to get my mind off of things, but I understand that it's not for everyone
@megan kohler Yeah, I totally get you. But I really hope you can find a job you love and a theater that can be your creative outlet. That can be hard to believe in right now, but this things are possible and even closer to coming true than you might think! The main thing is to not get discouraged. The world can be a tough place, but if you keep being kind and believing in better, it's all gonna work out
UGH, scammers are the absolute worst!! don't blame yourself, you have nothing to do with it. These people are out of their minds, you have nothing to do with it I promise! I'm really sorry it happened to you
Oh no! I'm so sorry that happened to you, please stay strong
Don't beat yourself up about this! These scammers are sophisticated and know exactly how to appear legitimate. They specifically target people who are actively job hunting because they know you're eager and hopeful. You should be proud that you listened to your parents and didn't fall for the scam completely. Take some time to research common job scams so you can spot the warning signs next time. Remember that legitimate employers never ask you to pay for equipment using checks they send that's a classic scam technique. Perhaps try looking for in-person opportunities
How are you feeling, Megan? Have you found anything?