I feel ya. Job hunting can be tough, especially when you encounter scammers who prey on hopeful job seekers. Those employment scams are unfortunately common, and it doesn't mean you're stupid at all - these people are professional manipulators who know exactly which buttons to push. The good thing is that you recognized the scam before losing any money. That's actually pretty smart! Try to see this as a learning experience rather than a failure. Maybe take a break from job hunting for a few days to reset your mindset, then get back out there with some new red flags to watch for.
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megan kohler
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@Carla Simmons I’m glad I didn’t lose money but I really can’t afford to just stop. I need a second job soon. The current one I work at only has me working two days a week ( it’s an after school based program) because not a lot of people are paying for other classes. The current one I have is booked until June which is good but what if I lose it? I need to find something else fast
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megan kohler
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@richardstanley8641 no I didn’t I’m still looking
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richardstanley8641
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@megan kohler Hi! How are you right now? Did you find something?
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Sidney White
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@megan kohler I was in the same situation last year! All I can say is that things change and please don't get discouraged but these people. They are trash! Don't even pay attention to them
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Wisdommmm
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Finding a good job is hard even when there aren't scammers involved. What's important is that you didn't fall for it completely. Consider volunteering at local theaters to build connections while you search for paid opportunities?
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megan kohler
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@Wisdommmm Why theaters? Just asking
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megan kohler
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@Wisdommmm I do love theater, especially Broadway musicals. It is the one thing that truly makes me happy. However, as much as I want to volunteer, I need a job that pays. I just need to be practical now
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megan kohler
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@Wisdommmm I love theater. I love Broadway theater like I said it is the one thing that really makes me happy. I just don’t know if I can volunteer right now because I’m trying to find another job. I’d love to perform again though
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Wisdommmm
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@megan kohler Just because you mentioned that finding a theater group is important for you. Do you think it's possible right now? You don't need to volunteer, btw, it just helps me to get my mind off of things, but I understand that it's not for everyone
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Wisdommmm
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@megan kohler Yeah, I totally get you. But I really hope you can find a job you love and a theater that can be your creative outlet. That can be hard to believe in right now, but this things are possible and even closer to coming true than you might think! The main thing is to not get discouraged. The world can be a tough place, but if you keep being kind and believing in better, it's all gonna work out
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Cario
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UGH, scammers are the absolute worst!! don't blame yourself, you have nothing to do with it. These people are out of their minds, you have nothing to do with it I promise! I'm really sorry it happened to you
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positive_vibes_only
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Oh no! I'm so sorry that happened to you, please stay strong
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Darlene McGee
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Don't beat yourself up about this! These scammers are sophisticated and know exactly how to appear legitimate. They specifically target people who are actively job hunting because they know you're eager and hopeful. You should be proud that you listened to your parents and didn't fall for the scam completely. Take some time to research common job scams so you can spot the warning signs next time. Remember that legitimate employers never ask you to pay for equipment using checks they send that's a classic scam technique. Perhaps try looking for in-person opportunities
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Kimberly St
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How are you feeling, Megan? Have you found anything?
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hqk1
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My brother was in a situation like this just a month back. I saw him struggling and didn't know how I could help, so I just was there. Today, he told me that it was the greatest thing he could ask for. He told me that he wasn't afraid of telling me about his failures because he knew that I wouldn't judge. And I really didn't judge because I knew how hard it was for him. I'm telling this all just to let you know that this period will pass. But don't close yourself off from people who love you. They are worried. Maybe they can help?
I feel ya. Job hunting can be tough, especially when you encounter scammers who prey on hopeful job seekers. Those employment scams are unfortunately common, and it doesn't mean you're stupid at all - these people are professional manipulators who know exactly which buttons to push. The good thing is that you recognized the scam before losing any money. That's actually pretty smart! Try to see this as a learning experience rather than a failure. Maybe take a break from job hunting for a few days to reset your mindset, then get back out there with some new red flags to watch for.
@Carla Simmons I’m glad I didn’t lose money but I really can’t afford to just stop. I need a second job soon. The current one I work at only has me working two days a week ( it’s an after school based program) because not a lot of people are paying for other classes. The current one I have is booked until June which is good but what if I lose it? I need to find something else fast
@richardstanley8641 no I didn’t I’m still looking
@megan kohler Hi! How are you right now? Did you find something?
@megan kohler I was in the same situation last year! All I can say is that things change and please don't get discouraged but these people. They are trash! Don't even pay attention to them
Finding a good job is hard even when there aren't scammers involved. What's important is that you didn't fall for it completely. Consider volunteering at local theaters to build connections while you search for paid opportunities?
@Wisdommmm Why theaters? Just asking
@Wisdommmm I do love theater, especially Broadway musicals. It is the one thing that truly makes me happy. However, as much as I want to volunteer, I need a job that pays. I just need to be practical now
@Wisdommmm I love theater. I love Broadway theater like I said it is the one thing that really makes me happy. I just don’t know if I can volunteer right now because I’m trying to find another job. I’d love to perform again though
@megan kohler Just because you mentioned that finding a theater group is important for you. Do you think it's possible right now? You don't need to volunteer, btw, it just helps me to get my mind off of things, but I understand that it's not for everyone
@megan kohler Yeah, I totally get you. But I really hope you can find a job you love and a theater that can be your creative outlet. That can be hard to believe in right now, but this things are possible and even closer to coming true than you might think! The main thing is to not get discouraged. The world can be a tough place, but if you keep being kind and believing in better, it's all gonna work out
UGH, scammers are the absolute worst!! don't blame yourself, you have nothing to do with it. These people are out of their minds, you have nothing to do with it I promise! I'm really sorry it happened to you
Oh no! I'm so sorry that happened to you, please stay strong
Don't beat yourself up about this! These scammers are sophisticated and know exactly how to appear legitimate. They specifically target people who are actively job hunting because they know you're eager and hopeful. You should be proud that you listened to your parents and didn't fall for the scam completely. Take some time to research common job scams so you can spot the warning signs next time. Remember that legitimate employers never ask you to pay for equipment using checks they send that's a classic scam technique. Perhaps try looking for in-person opportunities
How are you feeling, Megan? Have you found anything?
My brother was in a situation like this just a month back. I saw him struggling and didn't know how I could help, so I just was there. Today, he told me that it was the greatest thing he could ask for. He told me that he wasn't afraid of telling me about his failures because he knew that I wouldn't judge. And I really didn't judge because I knew how hard it was for him. I'm telling this all just to let you know that this period will pass. But don't close yourself off from people who love you. They are worried. Maybe they can help?