I'm a mom of two, and I have a lot of problems every day. The main problem is that my children are growing up without a father. Everyone says it's bad. But what am I gonna do? Their father is a loser and we're separated. He's kind, characterless, goes out with women and drinks alcohol. When we met him, I didn't see those traits. After we had kids, he became like that. I don't want to set a bad example for the kids. My mother says I'm wrong and the children should see their father. I started asking my ex-husband to go out with the kids. He promised, but he never showed up. My mother-in-law was so angry with him that she told my children that their father had died a long time ago. I'm in school and I don't know what to do.

Hi everyone!!!I'm sinking into depression today...Because my next girlfriend suddenly texted me "I've fallen in love with someone else". Well, how so.... need to tell you that absolutely all women, using me abandon me. I am well off enough, I have everything I need for a good life. So there are a lot of women around me! I do not have time to choose them - they choose me. Sometimes I don't even know which one is better. And I, of course, like a real man, promise to solve their problems. And I keep my promise. So why do they leave? I'm not conflicted, I'm not promiscuous. I've had three marriages, all women have left me. I don't understand why.

I'm pretty sure that you can't find a wife by specifically engaging in "selection" as experts advise. I didn't get married for a long time. I didn't see any worthy women. And I was busy with my career, business. I wasn't lonely, not ugly, I found and lost mistresses. My mom tormented me with requests for a grandchild, my dad with requests to settle down and become a family man. I didn't see a suitable girl around. And I didn't want to marry just anyone. All the correspondence on the Internet led to nothing, so you could only find boredom or entertainment. My friends told me that I was a perfectionist and showed me an example: "I'm already married, and we have children". I felt like they were "outmaneuvering" me. I thought a lot about why this was happening. I even went to a psychologist, a woman by the way. After talking for 1 hour, I realized that everything was normal with me, but why my wife was not there was unclear. I went to a coach, and heard that it is necessary to "remove internal barriers" and imagine that it is already there. I thought, how can I imagine that I already have a wife? Start being afraid of coming home on time? Give all the money to the nightstand by the bed? Come home and start yelling "where's dinner?" and not finding it, get offended. And go to see his real lover, Liusa. My mother obliged me to go to another psychologist, after which the situation became even more confused. I heard a lot of unnecessary information that I "repeat the scenario of my ancestors", have "complexes", "it is necessary to make an image of my beloved", and it is necessary to come to her 50 times and then everything will be fine. Finally tortured by human stupidity, I decided to go to a fortune teller, why, I do not understand at all. The fortune teller laid out the cards, and briefly said "you will soon meet your destiny...". I rejoiced and asked: "where?" The fortune-teller replied: "She is already walking around". I was intrigued and the next day I started looking around to see where she was. I walked, thinking, towards the office. And I felt a car splashing me hard as it drove by. I was indignant, saw that it was a car from the parking lot of our company and got mad. A girl ran out of the car and started to wipe me off and apologize. She surprised me and pissed me off at once, and I liked her looks very much. It turned out she worked in the neighboring department, but I, thinking, always went by....That's how I got married. I believe that psychologists are not able to help in this, it should happen by itself.  

I'm 17 years old girl and my identity causes me a lot of distress. I have never been in a relationship and find dating difficult. However, I often daydream about love and romance, but only with women. The idea of being intimate with men doesn't appeal to me. This realization is difficult for me to accept and I feel like a disappointment to my family and society. My religious upbringing makes me feel like I am letting God down. I wish I could be a "normal" straight girl and the constant stress and anxiety is overwhelming. I am even considering conversion therapy as a solution.