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semicolon
20d ago

manipulative mom

i just came back to home and i'm already done with this person. she always claim that she has too much dignity to ask for services, well instead it's even worse, it's not lile she is oh well since i didn't ask it's normal people can't guess, no she treats you like shit, make passive aggressive comments if you don't do what she wanted, she is entitled and selfish. you don't have pride you have ego, you're immature.


my mom has wifi issue at home since days and i only came back from holidays today, i proposed her to connect her phone to my 5g to help until the repairman come tomorrow.

i showed her how to do and successfully paired it in the early morning, she seemed happy to play her obsessive phone game until... late afternoon, she came back around me saying in guilt tripping tone "pff well it didn't work for long", first it had been hours, second can't you just say "oh help it suddenly doesn't work anymore" instead of making me feel like i am at fault, third, it was her who did something accidental on her phone probably because it still worked for other devices. she just wanted to make me feel bad for no reason. i put it back, no thank you nothing. she just said hm like it was due. i don't get how treating me bad will have me to help you more.


later i suggested she could use my device to watch a movie tonight if she wanted because i have several streaming apps. she looked interested, and then... she never came to take it, so since the time was passing i took my ipad back and watched my usual show i use to watch with an online friend.

i heard my mom say hours later "well goodnight since we can't watch a movie tonight" loud enough for me to hear it, i didn't react i was kinda hurt. the worst is that instead she was busy playing her phone game she is obsessed with, she even plays it when she pretends watching a movie, so please stop acting like you couldn't do smth you enjoy tonight. i did everything, i won't chase you more? she is treating me like i'm the one who lied, can't you never form a demand like an adult? like why didn't you say hey i actually want your device, will it kill you? dumb bitch

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