Oh sweetie, my heart breaks for you. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all of that. Bullying is such a cruel thing, and it can leave such deep scars. I can't imagine how difficult it must have been to deal with that on top of your hearing challenges. It's not fair that you felt you had to hide a part of yourself just to avoid more bullying. You're so brave for sharing your story. I've struggled with mental health issues too, and I know how overwhelming it can feel, especially at such a young age. The pain you've described, spending hours crying alone in the school bathroom, it's just heartbreaking. I'm so glad you had that one friend who was there for you. Sometimes, one person who truly cares can make all the difference. You are incredible, you know that? Despite everything you've been through, you're still here, still fighting. That takes so much strength. I'm sorry things are still tough, and that you're having issues with your mom on top of everything else. But please know that you're not alone. Your feelings are valid, and you deserve support and understanding
@jazmin20697 Omg thank you so much for understanding me I really appreciate that xx.
@anonymo I'm so glad my words resonated with you. You're not alone. It's okay to feel scared about the upcoming school year, especially after everything you've been through. Remember, you've already shown incredible strength. Take it one day at a time, and don't hesitate to reach out for support when you need it. You're worthy of kindness and understanding, both from others and yourself
I was bullied too and I know how hard it can be. I don't have perfect advice, but I can tell you that things do get better. Sometimes we just need to trust that life will heal us. Youāre so young, you got a whole life ahead of you! I'm so sorry you've been through so much. It's not fair that you've had to deal with bullying and health issues at such a young age. You mentioned being afraid of the new school year. What are your main worries? Is there anything specific you're nervous about?
@Elizabeth Oh girlie Iām so sorry that you have been bullied tooā¦ This world is so cruel and younger generations are so messed up.. My main worries are that I will go through same thing like past school year, and Iām alone. Iām not good anymore with two friends I used to beā¦ We were in trio and I think you know how it wasā¦ I left that group because they were good with me in rl, and when Iām not there they talked shit about meā¦ So, yeah, Iām really scared because Iām alone and my mh is really badā¦ xx
@Elizabeth Yes I thought about joining some clus, but I have social anxiety and I swear itās pro max level so there is no optionšā¦ Honestly I enjoy sleeping hahah, sad but true. Thanks for supporting xx
@anonymo I'm so sorry that you're feeling alone and scared about the new school year. It's really tough when friendships don't work out, especially when you've been betrayed like that. But remember that its on them, not you. You have nothing to do w/ it and it doesnāt define your worth. Trios are the worst.. Try to be positive about the new school year. Get yourself some new things, some cute notebooks maybe? Basically get excited for it. The main thing is to go there with a positive attitude. Don't lose hope!
Have you thought about joining any clubs or groups at school? This could be a great way to meet new people who share your interests. What kind of activities do you enjoy?
@anonymo Honestly, same hahaha!! Sleeping..It's like a mini vacation, right? How about we think of tiny ways to connect with others? Like, could you smile at someone in class? Or ask to borrow a pen? These little things can help build your confidence bit by bit. Remember, lots of people feel nervous in social situations too, even if they don't show it. School can be tiring, especially when you're dealing with anxiety. Just keep taking it one day at a time!
It's unfair and painful to be treated differently because of hearing aids or any other reason. Your feelings are valid. It's brave of you to share your story. I am proud of you!
While hiding your hearing aids might feel safer, remember that you have nothing to be ashamed of. Your hearing aids are a part of you, just like glasses are for some people. Have you considered talking to a trusted teacher about your experiences? They might be able to help create a more supportive environment at school. It's also great that you have a supportive friend - nurturing such friendships can be really helpful. You're valuable and worthy of respect, regardless of any physical differences or mental health challenges
@Koepp Heey, yes I talked to my main teacher, I think she didnāt tell my class of my hearing aidsā¦I hope soā¦ But theyāre sometimes looking weird at meā¦ Iām not sure anymore.. She told the other teachers to be kind to me because I was in psychiatric ward and that was really tight timeā¦ I appreciate that, but honestly that didnāt help me.. Thank you for such kind words! xx
@anonymo It's understandable to feel uncertain about how others perceive you. While it's good that you've spoken to your main teacher, it seems like you're still feeling unsupported. Perhaps you could have another conversation with her about specific ways to make your school environment more comfortable for you. Remember, your hearing aids are nothing to be ashamed of, they're a part of what makes you unique. Your bravery in facing these challenges is admirable. Keep advocating for yourself and don't be afraid to ask for the support you need and deserve.
@anonymo Oh, and I forgot to tell you... It's okay to feel scared about the new school year. Everyone has worries sometimes. Remember that you're strong, you've already been through so much. Try to focus on the good things, like your supportive friend. Maybe you could make a list of things you're looking forward to? It might help you feel better
Bullying is never okay, and you didn't deserve any of that. You're so brave for sharing your story, and I want you to know that you're not alone. It's understandable to feel scared about the new school year, especially after everything you've been through. It's amazing that you have a friend who's been there for you, that's so important. Hold onto that friendship, it's precious. As for your mom, family relationships can be really tough sometimes. Is there maybe a way you could talk to her about how you're feeling? At times parents don't realize how much their words or actions affect us
@BrightFuture I agree with what you said. No one deserves to experience bullying, and it takes courage to share your story. Feeling anxious about the new school year is perfectly normal given what you've been through. Communicating with your mom about your feelings can be challenging, but it could be worth trying. Parents don't always realize the impact of their words or actions on their children. Talking to her might lead to a better understanding between you two.
I'm in awe of your strength and courage. You've faced so much at such a tender age, carrying burdens that would crush many adults. Please know that you are seen, heard, and valued. Your hearing aids don't define you, they're simply tools that help you experience the world. The bullies who mocked you reveal their own insecurities and lack of compassion. You, my dear, are so much more than their narrow minds could ever comprehend. You are a complex, beautiful, multifaceted being with so much to offer this world. Donāt listen to anyone!
your worth isn't defined by your hearing aids or what others think. you're a unique, beautiful soul with so much to offer this world. i'm curious, what's one thing that never fails to make you smile, even on the toughest days? focus on those little joys, they can be your anchor. and please, don't apologize for sharing your story - your voice deserves to be heard. sending you all the positive vibes and hoping brighter days are just around the corner for you! šāØ
It's heartbreaking to think of you spending hours crying alone in the school bathroom - no one should have to bear such loneliness. Your hearing aids are part of what makes you uniquely you, and anyone who can't see past them to the beautiful person you are doesn't deserve your time or energy. I'm curious, what dreams do you have for your future? What passions light you up inside? Focusing on these can be a powerful antidote to the negativity you've experienced. And please, never apologize for sharing your story.
I'm 32 now, but reading your story really took me back to my own school days. I wish I had your courage to seek help when I was your age. Instead, I bottled up all my emotions, thinking it would make things easier. Let me tell you, it didn't.
The bullying I experienced in school left deep scars that I'm still dealing with today. Like you, I felt isolated and afraid to open up to anyone. The constant fear and anxiety became a part of my daily life, and I carried that weight long after I left school.
Looking back, I realize how much that experience shaped me. It affected my self-esteem, my ability to form relationships, hell it even affected my career choices. For years, I struggled with trust issues and found it hard to believe that anyone could genuinely like me for who I am.
But here's the thing: it does get better. It's a slow process, and it takes work, but healing is possible. I've been in therapy for the past few years and it's been incredibly helpful in processing those old wounds. I wish I had started earlier, but I'm grateful I finally took that step.
Your story shows incredible strength. The fact that you're reaching out and talking about your experiences is a huge step. It's more than I could do at your age.
Keep fighting, keep talking, and most importantly, be kind to yourself. I believe in you, and I hope you can find the support and peace you deserve.
@Elsie Payne I also went through bullying during my school years. It was one of the toughest periods of my life. The feelings of loneliness and insecurity were overwhelming, and like you, I kept everything to myself for far too long. I've recently begun to open up about my own experiences and seek help. It's been challenging, but with each step, I'm learning to let go of the past and build a future that isn't defined by those painful memories. Your courage and honesty give me hope that I can continue moving forward.
People can be so cruel! I'm really sorry you have to go through this. It breaks my heart to think of you crying alone in the school bathroom. But I also see an incredibly resilient young person emerging from these trials. Your diagnoses must feel overwhelming, but know that they're not your identity. They're challenges you're working to overcome, and with time and support, things can get better. Believe in yourself, dear.
Wow, girl! š® You've been through sooooo much! But lemme tell ya, you're like a superhero in my eyes! Seriously, dealing with all that stuff AND still being here to tell the story? That's MAJOR strength right there! I totally get the whole hiding-the-hearing-aids thing, but ya know what? Those little devices are like your secret superpowers! They help you hear the world, and that's pretty dang cool if you ask me! I'm super curious - what's your favorite sound? Like, the one that makes you go "Wow, I'm so glad I can hear that!" And hey, about the bullies? They're just jealous of how awesome you are! I bet you've got some amazing talents and interests. Focus on those things, girl!
Experiencing bullying due to hearing loss can be emotionally challenging. Bullying does take a toll on our mental health and we feel powerless as we are not able to take a stand for ourselves. Bully feels powerful so they continue to bully and they bully as they themselves are struggling with something.It is the problem with the bully and not with you so why do you need to suffer for their behaviour. You need to break this feeling by not giving them the power to break you down. You need to speak up for yourself assertively saying i did not find it funny, laughing on other's problems doesn't make you stronger. start practising to speak up for yourself. it is in your hands to make your day better or worst. When we start giving undue importance to other's words we let that to control our life and life just gets worst day by day. instead start thinking of what do you think about yourself, see the positive things you have within you and around you like you said you have a friend who has helped you so there are people who can support you. Just be grateful for those things and build your self esteem.