So in regards to my friend saying he couldn’t be friends with me anymore because I didn’t want to be in a romantic relationship with him and only saw him as a friend, he called me the day after our conversation and apologized for his behavior. He said it was wrong of him to act like that and that he was projecting his insecurities on me which was wrong. I accepted his apology but I’m still upset about what happened. I keep doubting myself. Am I really shallow because I sometimes have a type? Yeah sometime I notice a persons looks but I care more about personality. Looks are only a second to me. I wouldn’t date a guy who was good looking if he had a terrible personality. I feel like crap really but I can’t help it if I’m not romantically into someone and see them more as a friend. Can’t I be friends with men and not be involved with them romantically? Am I the only one who finds the whole “ friendzone” thing kind of sexist?
i finally have an answer of what happened with my friend "ignoring" me. i was wrong for the issue, but not the root actually.
for context my friend suddenly stopped giving news aft...
my friend and i were meeting today again
[explanation about why this second meet up but youre not forced to read for the 2nd part:
last time my friend told me she asked her t...
sometimes i wonder if i'm really appreciated the right way or because i'm convenient, when you compare how they treat others that they know less it's kinda saddening:
one of my bes...
the way it ended with my abuser frustrate me too much, because they "won" by making me believe i was the insane one.
for 3 years my "bff" psychologically abused me. i told her my f...