It is going to be 5 years since my wife Anni left this world. Even today, whenever I wake up suddenly after sleeping for a while, I feel that where is my wife, suddenly every pore of my body becomes restless to see her, but for a moment, my brain seems to accept this. In doing that now she has left me from this world forever. This happens to me several times a day and night, my heart sinks. At this moment the pain that arises in my chest, the whole body has to spend many hours bearing a shock. Because of which I spend hours lying on the bed alone in the room.

 All the happiness and feeling good time is gone from life.

 I don't know when the sun is in the morning

 When does it set?

 How does it feel to have a day off?

 How do you feel during a festival?

 How would it feel to have a conversation with friends?

 How did you feel while shopping?

 how do you feel birthday

 How does it feel to go to someone's wedding?

 How does it feel to prepare yourself?

 How does it feel to decorate a house?

 How does it feel to travel somewhere?

 How does the music feel?

 All things have been traded in return in this life I have only my own pain and depression Lying on the bed immersed in darkness Now this is the only life. Excitement, enthusiasm, hope, happiness, love, affection now All over

Good evening, everyone.

I don’t usually do this sort of thing, but I decided that I need to hear other opinions on the matter.

I recently found out that my 13-year-old kid has been involved in online gambling and streaming video games for money. As she is underage, she befriended our neighbor’s daughter who is of age and can legally receive money. That one got all the money and the donations into her bank account and then gave my daughter’s share to her. I don't know when they started, but so far it looks like they’ve earned more than $1000 in winnings and donations. When I first learned about my daughter's activities, I was shocked and dismayed. As a parent, I have always tried to instill values of responsibility and integrity in her, and the thought that she was engaging in underage gambling and using a loophole to do it angered me.

So I confiscated the money. My primary motivation was to protect her from the potential dangers of gambling addiction and to send a clear message that this behavior is not acceptable. Additionally, I felt it was important to address the fact that she had lied to me (initially, she said she got the money from her grandmother, which of course quickly turned against her as I asked my mother the same evening).

Now comes the difficult part. My actions have not been met with understanding. My wife believes that I overreacted and that I should have handled the situation differently. She says we should have talked to our daughter about responsibility and the legal aspects of it all, instead of taking her money. My daughter just refuses to talk to me. I’m uncertain now. Have I made the right decision?

I am seeking outside perspective. On the one hand, I want to stand firm in my decision and set clear boundaries around my kid’s behavior. On the other hand, my wife’s words left me feeling conflicted. She didn’t support me, and now I’m the stinky dad, and she’s the diplomat. It used to be the other way round...

I am eager to hear from others what you think.

My husband cheated on me...it would seem a banal story! You can even say ordinary...But, as they say, there is a nuance. He cheated on me with a man. An effeminate creature to be taken care of. Because he can't do anything in life for himself, as it turns out.

Not that I'm against men of other orientations. But the realization that he cheated on me with a man changes everything. We've been married a long time, we have a son growing up. And this is also a problem! I want to bring up my son properly...And here my dad brought a guy home to introduce him to my ex-wife and my son...agree to see each other on weekends. And the question. What kind of woman was I if my husband left me for a man? Maybe it's better for the son not to see his father in such a company and in such a way?

I've been an overeater for years. Impulsively eating sweets. No, not like that: grabbing all the food that was at home until my stomach started to hurt. Of course, I gained weight. My wife started making comments about me being fat. She generally made a lot of remarks to me every day: I often did, in her opinion, everything wrong. We fought a lot...I would get frustrated and go and eat , eat , eat. I started going to the gym. It didn't help, the weight went down a little and then came back up again. I wanted to find another wife...I looked at myself in the mirror and thought "who needs me fat". One day I approached a slim man at a training session and asked him how and what he would recommend. thanks to him, he listened to me carefully. And he said: "I couldn't lose weight until I left my wife, who was always scolding me". Leaving my wife!!! I dreamed of it. I wonder if this will help. Another month went by and my wife and I came to the conclusion that we should get a divorce. We drew up the necessary papers and I began to feel sobodny. For the time being, I stayed living with my wife while we resolved the property issue. My wife stopped yelling at me (I'm not her husband anymore) and our relationship became more even. And surprisingly, I stopped eating too much. I stopped craving sweets. My weight finally started to drop. I was delighted and surprised. And the wife started, anoborot eating a lot and gaining weight. I felt sorry for her, but I wanted to lose weight and my freedom helped me. I started reading about it on the internet, and I realized that I was in a "psychological prison". I will try not to get into it again. and my wife is in a psychological prison. I don't know whether to be happy or sad for her.